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I love him so much, how do i change to get him back?

Asked by cbosley1999 over 3 years ago, 5 answers.

My boyfriend of two years has just said we should go on a break for 2
weeks! I can't make contact with him until the two weeks are up as he
needs space, im distraught! I can't eat or sleep and I know 100% he is
the guy I want to spend the rest of my...

life with. We got together when
he had just turned 16 and I had just turned 17 so we are young. I am
willing to fight so hard to get back with him. he is perfect.He says I
have a temper problem (its not dramatic I tut when I get annoyed which annoys him0 and I don't give him enough space, how do I change
this to be with him?
Can anyone offer any advice?

Me! Answered by imiz on Jul 13, 2006, 11:08AM
62 answers

U may not wanna hear this at the moment, and my advice may not be of use to u... however, i dont think u should change. Being u and everythin u bring is U.. and u cant pick and choose a persons Personality, and say.. .Oooooo i like that, but i dont like that.. U come as a whole package, and for me, to dislike one part of someone and then to use that for a reason to break up or go on a break quite frankly is poor.

If u like a person, but that person has a flaw ( or he may think of it as a flaw) then thats neither here or there.. cos u'd still like the person and should be patient over the fact they have this thing u may not like.. not everyone is perfect x

IMiz x

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 13, 2006, 11:53AM
7798 answers

Take anger management classes, and give him space!! Just because your bf/gf doesnt mean you have to be with each other 24/7, and call 1 another nonstop. Couples need other hobbies outside of the relationship, and they need to be with their friends as well. Its not healthy to be with each other all the time! Change for yourself, not for someone else!!

Answered by xchelsey on Jul 13, 2006, 01:21PM
128 answers

i agree with imiz. you shouldnt have to change fully. i do agree that u should give him his space when he wants it though, that way your both happy. but if you have a temper problem he should be willing to help you through it. if you get a temper when he annoys you then he needs to know how far he can push you. you need to be with someone who understands you and knows how to handle you. as long as your not swearing or calling him names then it's not that bad. he shouldnt be willing to leave you after two years. you guys need to work through it together. when the two weeks is up tell him you want to fix things and work on your temper but you need him to work with you. you cant do it alone. and he has to be reasonable. it cant be all you.

Answered by ijustdontknow on Jul 13, 2006, 07:51PM
44 answers

how long have u had your temprer? is it just recently? or the whole to years of your relationship?

meggs Answered by meggs on Jul 13, 2006, 08:07PM
45 answers
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Change for yourself only! People will know if you change for them, and will learn to disrespect you in the end.

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