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I love him but scared to be with him

Asked by lusiouscandi over 6 years ago, 1 answer.

I#039;ve been talking to this person for a couple of month. He was really trying to get with me but I was scared to get involved with him because he is older than me. I mean I really truely have feeling for him. But he gets me so mad because he say...

these things that makes me fall in love with him all over again. But sometime I get mad because I don#039;t want to let him in. I don#039;t want to put my Gaurd down. I have so much feeling stored up inside for him that it make me mad. Because I want him and can#039;t have him. And lately he has been acting funny. Gush is that what love really feels like. I NEED HELP WHAT DO I DO.

Answered by eris on Dec 22, 2003, 06:34PM
13 answers

Love isn#039;t about being scared and frightened, it#039;s about feeling secure. I#039;d have to say that if this guy doesn#039;t make you feel secure, then your reaction to him may be more hormonal than anything.

First, do you have issues trusting people? Is this something that you go through with everyone you try to get close to, or is this just a reaction you#039;re having with him?

If it#039;s something with you, then you need to be able to work through your trust issues before you can let go and be in a relationship with someone.

If it#039;s something that#039;s happening only with him, perhaps you#039;re picking up clues that he#039;s not to be trusted.

What sort of things is he doing to make you feel you can#039;t trust him?

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