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I love him but i'm crushing on someone else

Asked by confusedlove over 5 years ago, 4 answers.

I#039;v been my boyfriend for 3 months and in those three months I fell in love with him and I mean fell hard. I love him with all my heart and wouldn#039;t do anything to hurt him. On the other hand there is this guy named Ramon who I been crushing on...

for the past 2 months and we talk on the phone sometimes my boyfriend and Ramon have known each other before my boyfriend finished school, Ramon and I are both juniors so we see each other everyday. My boyfriend knows I talk to him at school but not over the phone and doesn#039;t know I have a crush, we flirt all the time. I know its wrong but everytime I am around Ramon he makes me want to break up with my boyfriend just to be with him. I told my boyfriend time and time again that there is no one else out there for me but him but when I#039;m with Ramon I feel like he is the one for me. I don#039;t want to break up with my boyfriend though. I wantus to be together but temptation is killing me when we are alone sometimes he always pops up in my head. What should I do? Help me Please.

Answered by courtsteb on Apr 21, 2004, 04:54PM
5 answers

I have a serious boyfriend that I love also, and there have been other guys that I#039;ve felt that way about. Try to identify if maybe the feeling you have for Ramon is just a strong friendship, but the fact that he#039;s around you everyday at school, and your boyfriend is not, is what you like more about him. Or maybe you and your boyfriend should try taking a break for a little bit while you figure things out...
PS. I#039;m the one who typed in quot;MY BOYFRIEND DITCHES ME FOR DRUGSquot; and since I helped you out as best I could, although that is kind of a sticky situation, it#039;d be great if you can tell me what you think about my problem, because no one has typed any comments! and im really in a delimma! THANKS

Answered by sherry on Apr 23, 2004, 01:50PM

How in the hell can you do that you stupied person you will kill them if you break up with them

Answered by u_better_hollaback01 on Jun 09, 2005, 02:24AM
34 answers

i just think you need to go deep inside your heart and think to your self who has always been there for you who is the one you are really in love with Your real BOYFRIEND OR Ramon?

Good Luck!!!

Mommy and Shailey Answered by shailey2005 on Jul 23, 2007, 11:53PM
3 answers

If u really love your boyfriend.. you wouldnt be crushing over someone else. its the truth. maybe you just thik your in love but really u just like him a lot. your not inlove. when your inlove, no one else is better and u dnt wanta b with any1 else. Honestly, if your crushing 4 someone else..break up with ur boyfriend cuz its not fair for him 2 b dating someone who's heart isnt pure and really falling 100% 4 him. its better that way. beleive me!
-Christina

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