I love/hate my boyfriend

It seems like he is dependent on whomever he is dating. We've been together since july and it seems like all of his past relationships rear their ugly heads at one point or another. Like the other day, the cable got cut off and I couldn't use his debit card bc the cable was still in his ex girlfriends name. It pissed me off bc they broke up in march and he has this whole big thing about me talking to my exes, but he can have his exes name on utilities?!?! What the hell?! So I have ground to be mad? When he says that I'm being unreasonable, should I tell him to shove it?

Don't go off to hard. But he is the one that is unreasonable. He don't need his exes name on any of his stuff. He needs his own name on all of his stuff. I don't blame you being mad at him. He does need to get over his ex now. Because that is really getting bull. But he should be with you. He needs to get off of high horse and tell you that he does love you. If you don't like him doing these kind of things. Talk to him. If it doesn't work and he keeps on doing things like that. I would sugguest that you break up with him. But don't do that now. Just do what is right for you. Good luck!!!!

everyday I realize more and more how much guys suck lol bad I know...but it's not hard to do. I think you should say 'shove it' IF he think's your not allowed to do what he does, you two should be equal. so if he has things in his x's name you should be alowed to talk to your x as long as its friendly
hope that helps