I live with a man

I need to know what to do. I'm currently living with a man but he doesn't pay attention to my needs. He doesn't call me by the cute little pet names that I would like him to. He never makes any moves toward me as far as sex. I'm always the one that makes all the moves and it is getting on my nerves. I like to hug and cuddle on the couch and just lay in each others arms and listen to soft romantic music and he just doesn't pay it any mins. I'm always cooking and cleaning to make him feel comfortable. He hardly even speaks to my little girl. I feel like I'm being used. I want to make him happy but I want a little apperciation in return. We've been seeing each other since july 4 and he hasn't gotten so much as a rose. HELP

Dear imisshim:

I have been going through the same kind of thing. I have lived with my so called finonce for almost two years, and he dosen't cuddle and the only time he has sex with me is maybee ounce a month I think, to passify me but most of the time he dosen't org**m. I think he is using me and getting it some where elese. He always says how much he loves me but will go out of his way to do things for other people includding other woman, and yet can't ask me out to dinner. What ever you do I hope you don't loose a lot of money to this man like I have because now I just feel stupid. Anyway take care.

californiabec