What if my crush has a girlfriend already?

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okso, I've known this guy for about a year now, longer than his girlfriend, and before we'd used to hangout like regular friends, and talk on msn, all those days, I've had a crush on him, because he'd make me laugh, and like tease me and stuff, and flirt and whatnot ,, and I never told him that I liked him, its like he made me like him, by being someone else, but, im not even sure if I know him, like some guys can try to be someone else and they do a good job at it, even in real life, (MEANING NOT ON MSN) but anywas, back to the point, I really really like him, I dont even know why, I just do, I've liked him for like 8 - 9 months, and hes been single ever since I've met him, but now, hes going out with my best friend who is younger than me, shes 13, and hes 17, like holy crap, thats growse, I dont know what to do, I guess its my fault for not telling him, but now I feel like going to my bestfriend and beating her up and stuff, but I cant, shes like a sister to me, and I always have her back, so, now im here crying like a f*ing baby, not knowing what to do, I've asked my other friend she said just to move on with your life, but I cant, like do you understand me? almost every girl in the world cant move on with their lives, if they really loved someone, but hey anywas, please please,, tell me what should I do? ,

Well, if you didn't tell your best friend that you liked him than you can't blame her for going out with him, and you should have told him you liked him. If you had told your best friend, I'm sure she wouldn't have gone out with him. But anyways, you'll get over him, eventually. If you want to fun mail me you can, or you can add me as a friend.

omg that is soo true, I never thought of that, but now that you've mensiond it I feel like shyt

There's plenty of fish in the sea. I was once in your shoes and hated myself after a cute guy came up to me that was my type and didn't give him my phone number I beat myself up lol...but then I said if it was for me it would've happened. Listen, its not your job to love someone it's his job to come up to you and tell you his feelings.. let a dude love you.. not you loving a dude first and asking him out..it gives him the green light to control, and be a jerk and cheat on you.. don't ever show you are desperate for a dude...

if you really really like him you can just wait and see... and its ment to be then it wont work out with your best friend and him. then when it doesn't work out you can try to get together with him... but don't wait forever just put him on the back burner.. And of course if you really do love him but it seems like its going to work out with him and your friend then leave them be and DON'T ever try to break them up... bad!... be happy for him that he's got someone that will make him happy and for your friend for getting a good boyfriend...

yeah ,, thats what I feel, I always wait for the guy to make the first move, lol thats exactly how I feel, but I feel stupid cuhz I should have told my bestfriend that I like him, but whatever, im just going to say im over it, but then again things that we used to do together reminds me of him, and I just start breaking down,lol shieetty,but whatever.. thanks tho

This happend to me, I really like my friend Kyle for 3 years and we didnt go out, and just a few days ago I was talking with my boyfriend of nearly a yeah and he said your friend kyle still likes you a lot. Even though he has a girlfriend, and he said the only reason kyle was going out with this other girl was because I hadnt made a move and thought that he could make me jealous and he did but when I did move on I ended up happier then I would have with him. And when I like Kyle I thought I loved him I really did, but my friends helped me see that, I cant hang on one guy when the next guy could end up being your true love.

So you needed to pick what you want to do...

1. Tell him you like him
2. Get over him, and find someone new ( Like Me)
or
3. Just sit and wait for him.