I like him and he says he likes me

I like this guy and he says he like me, we've hooked up lots of times. but im devolping more feelings for him and I really like him, only thing is hes got this other girl but there not dating anymore but there still seeing each other. The other day he added me on myspace and he had loads of comments from this girl saying stuff like 'I love you' and stuff like that. me and him talk a lot and get on really well, only thing is this other girl. I cant tell who he likes best. but I think hes been with her longer.
what should I do I really like him. and I feel if I asked him out he'd say no cus then he'd lose this other girl.

Try and Make it clear how you feel!

Don't waste time.

Drop hints, see what he does.

And try and find out more about this girl

Okay, well judging from what I JUST read, it looks to me like you are his sex toy.. I would go ahead, and break it off, even if you have feelings for him, only because of this reason... If he is still messing with that other girl, the same time he is messing with you, and you gradually took up a relationship with you, then what makes you think he would not cheat on you? you must think present, and future.. anyways good luck, and I hope everything works out. :]

OH MY. IM in the same boat. Thats weird. I really like this guy we hooked up he likes me but there is one problem. His x-girl. I confronted this guy I liked and asked him what was going on. I think you might need to do that to. The thing is he probably has feelings for both of you. He just doesnt know which way to lead them towards. So he flirts with both, and doesnt do anything else about it. You need to talk to him. Trust me. Let me know how it works out!!!

He is saying everything you want to hear so you'll keep hooking up with him. You are being very naive. Boys can have sex with many girls and not let their feelings get involved, unlike girls! Besides, no decent boy would EVER have sex with a girl he isnt in a relationship with. If he truly liked you in the right way, he would be dating you, instead of using you!

tell yourself, love or not ? in case you love him but he not, so please forget him ... my girl used to wait for me (some years), but I don't think I can change my mind, don't let love mess up your life.

Its not love. I just like him, I cant be in love at my age. It annoys me when young people say there 'in love' love devolps through time. I have a lot of feelings towards him which I havent felt this strongly about anyone before.