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I have no clue what todo

Asked by snowbunni108 over 5 years ago, 6 answers.
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I have been with this guy who I thought was the love of my life....we have been together for a year now. I love him so much and he feels the same about me, I never want to lose him. He asked me to marry him and I said yes but sortly after we broke up because of ou fighting. We got back together 2days later but still fight constantly. I have had feelings toward another guy I met a little while back, I want to date him.....but im still in love with my boyfrend David. Someone please help me....I have no clue what to do!!

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Answered by hanhie on May 29, 2003, 09:11PM
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I think you should think about it before you...do anything about it if you..doo something about it you maybe..going to wish that you never make that decision..you noe what I mean..I been there be4 soo I noe..ang I help mai friend out,...she ang her boyfriend is together rite now..for a long time now..soo if you need help with your relatinship email meh at Fun mail me..I noe sometime it wont work but sometime I tell some one something they follow what I sai..ang it help them out..

Answered by brendak73 on May 30, 2003, 02:45PM
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if you have feelings for someone else than you really arent inlove with your boyfriend. your very confused. I think you should take a time out for yourself and figure out your feelings. If you find yourself fighting all the time you may want to rethink about your current relationship. its healthy in all relationships to have an occational arguement. but if its as frequent as you say.its not healthy. not at the cost of beeing unhappy. try to disscuss this issue with your current boyfriend and see if you can work on things. but if not,and you go your seporate ways. take time out for you before you date anyone else.

Answered by adidas247n on Jun 01, 2003, 05:37PM
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I completely understand where you are coming from. 100% I'm in the exact same situation, as far as the getting married eventually, and being the love of each other's life part. You know...I don't exactly have advice, but maybe I can help you look at things in a different way!
I almost tried seeing somebody else after a fight, and you know what? I had a good time, but I saw nothing more than friendship. I can't feel the kind of love that I feel for my boyfriend, for anybody else. I went to his house that day and all I had to do was look at him standing by the door, and I just stood there by my car. Instantly we ran towards each other and that was that! We are definetly inseperable, and nothing...NOTHING can pull us apart, no matter how bad the fights get. And believe me, they get UGLY! You just need to evaluate how STRONG your love is for each other, and if you can live your life w/o him.

Answered by ac on Jun 01, 2003, 10:44PM
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IF you can't imagine your life without him, it's not love. It's a crush.

It's not about looking at each other, but together in the same direction.

If you're continually breaking up and getting back together you're either too immature to have a real relationship, or you're too focused on each other.

I've been the man in situations like this. Get out or work it out. No other options available.

Answered by wbmsgirl on Jun 04, 2003, 06:51PM
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what you need to do is ask david whats wrong in this realationship. then find out whats going on. after that go talk to that other guy and ask him how he feels. sit down and figure out witch one you like better. think witch one would be a better farther to your future children. but the real advice I can give you is: if any of them were the right guy you would have no problem deciding. if you need any more advice e mail me back...

Answered by frustatedinlove on Jun 05, 2003, 01:29PM
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First of all, you have to realize why the relationship with your boyfriend isn't working. We are often mistaken of what being in love is, most of the time its more of an addiction than love and sometimes its simply the comfort of being with that person. As women we often live in the hopes that we can change this person and that one day our dream will come true and they will be just what we want. Unfortunately we have to stop dreaming and realize that we have to come back to reality and do what is best for us now. Why waste these days now in hopes that things may be good in the future? I know I have my own problems to as you may see I have asked for advice also but sometimes its easier to give advice to others as an outsider. If you take a look at my advice that I am asking its quite similar to yours. I am looking forward from now on and I am going to try not to look back, we just need to keep our head up and be strong because one day we will look back and laugh at how silly we were. Lets try to be strong and not let these people that aren't good for us slow us down in life. Let's give ourselves the best because after all we deserve it.

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