I have never had an orgasim and i feel like giving up

Asked by triciaprince over 3 years ago, 4 answers.

I have s*x with my boyfriend but I get mad because I see him getting lots of pleasure but im not. I'm to the point where I don't want s*x anymore. ineed some much needed advice before I give up completely

lyubopitka Answered by lyubopitka on May 06, 2006, 07:44PM
200 answers

The most important thing you should be able to do is talk to your man and work it out with him, not with us, because you're having sex with *him* after all... Tell him what you like and ask him to do it. You can give hints if you don't want to straight out ask. Explore your body yourself first, find out what feels good and what gets you to orgasm, so you can give him better direction. Talk. Communication is key. Give him signals when he does something you like (moan, gasp, etc) - he will follow your lead and do what feels good to you. Try different kinds of stimulation - he can bring you to orgasm through oral, or with his hand, etc. if penetration isn't enough. The bottom line is, don't give up but communicate and experiment. Good luck!

Answered by reemal-khalifa_chrisbrown123 on May 07, 2006, 11:09AM

I think that you should try it again with him ,and if you don't enjoy it again watch a movie about sex. It well make you feel like you want to have sex.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jun 25, 2007, 11:01AM
53963 answers

Chances are it's more his fault than yours. First try giving yourself an org*#m. If you've never had one you need to know if it's possible for you to have one and I'd say it's about a 90% chance you can. I'd suggest a vibrator type dildo to experiment with by yourself. Then you'll have to educate your BF about foreplay and how to get you to the point where you are ready to have one before he goes in. Men are usually too quick once they are in.

Answered by 532kloop on Aug 10, 2007, 09:32PM
64 answers

i u have a fantasy then use it like mine...bt idk u so i cant tell u!!!...if u dnt have a fantasy then use lube or whipp cream!!!

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