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I have a friend online who hates gays and bi people!

Chazy Chaz Asked by rickyullmanandlinkinpark4life about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

I'm not gay. Dont get me wrong.
But I support gays and I feel seriously bad for them.
But this friend has a really bad temper so if I tell him off, then hes going to get a ton of people against me.
I'm scared and I dont know what to do.
Help me!

woofstock Answered by utopia on Sep 27, 2008, 06:45PM
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EXCUSE ME???
YOU FEEL SERIOUSLY BAD FOR HOMOSEXUALS?

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Me - Created by maggot4 (Raven) Answered by ichibanarky on Sep 27, 2008, 09:07AM
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There isn't a lot you can do, unfortunately. people have their own ideals and nobody can change what they feel.

It's frustrating to see someone who simply can't let go of an ignorant bias, but there's really nothing you can do.

It doesn't sound like this person is a friend. I'd recommend you just avoid him.

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Sep 27, 2008, 09:09AM
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You cant change his beliefs - so just ignore it.
I know its really hard when someone is putting down gay people when you believe they are equal. I totally support all gays (I'm also straight) and my mom is homophobic, it really bothers me sometimes. But you have to remember to respect their opinion even if you don't agree with what they are saying. Something like this is just one of those things that has two sides and fighting about it wont change a thing. So just let him support what he wants and not support what he doesn't want to, its his life and his choices.

kitty Answered by ty on Sep 27, 2008, 09:33AM
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I'm not gay. Dont get me wrong

I want you to think about those words for a second...

As for your friend, so he's a bigot... You cant do much about that... Either tell him you respect his opinion but you do not want to discuss the subject, or just stop talking to him...

Answered by pickles15 on Sep 27, 2008, 11:58AM
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hmm well I'm gay and you completely offended me with this...
I'm not gay dont get me wrong your basically saying dont think I'm gay cause thats gross and I would never want to be gay.
also saying you feel bad for gay people. Are you f!cking kidding me??!! I dont think I need to tell you whats wrong with that statement and If I do then you have major problems.
check yourself before calling others out.
thanks!

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kitty Answered by ty on Sep 27, 2008, 06:40PM
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lol, it's interesting how the person above me was rated as unhelpful...
the truth hurts sometimes... and yes btw that statement was highly offensive which is why I pointed it out... you can dislike it all you want, but by saying you are offended by someone else and then making statements like that it really doesnt lend your case too much credibility...

Answered by pickles15 on Sep 27, 2008, 08:39PM
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I wasnt talking to you ty I was talking to the girl who wrote it?

kitty Answered by ty on Sep 28, 2008, 03:44PM
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yes I know, I was talking to the person who wrote the question too (and I thought it was a little ridiculous your answer was marked unhelpful)

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