I have a boyfriend but i can't forget my ex

I have a boyfriend but I love my ex..I just can't forget about him. We broke up about a year ago and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months..I love my boyfrind but who I'm in love with is my ex. The thing is that I dont know why because he...

really hurt me. plus, he lives in new york and I moved to florida so I haven't seen him since we broke up, I have just talked to him on the phone a couple times. Could it be that I can't forget him because he was the first man I ever fell in love with.. what could it be?.. I just need to forget about him because this is interfering in my actual relationship too since I just can't seem to trust my boyfriend. I told him it was because I got so hurt by my ex and he tells me that not everyone is the same way. that's true but I just can't get it out of my mind, either my ex boyfriend and the fear of my actual boyfriend cheating on me and getting hurt again.
PLEASE help me.. what should I do?? how do I forget about my ex and move on?? HELP!!!

my friend is goin through the same thing.all i cud say is the reason u stil love ur ex is coz he was ur 1st love.u need 2 fink about who u really love.if u love ur ex bf this much then tell him bt if u love ur bf more than ur ex then think of wot u h8 about ur ex bt all u really need 2 do is fink WHO U REALLY LOVE is up 2 u.n maybe u r not ready 2 move on yet maybe u need sumtime alone 4 a lilbit.

for me it`s ze same thing i have one boyfriend now and i can`t forget my ex he will always b my yoven i can`t see him with his new girlfriend it hurts me very much i fink that i will leave my boyfriend n go towards him once again!!

Time doe's ease the pain..but memories will allways remain..some days when you feel low a tear will fall and you will yearn to be back in his arms again..But life does go on..without experances you would not be the person you are and believe me you will have many more experiances some sad but most will be happy. These create the memories that later on in life you will reflect on with loving thoughts and silent tears.
be brave and live your life one day at a time, and live it and love it with open arms as if it was your last. I still love my first love and that was over 38 years agoe but I have gone on to marry a fantastic man, we have been married for over 36yrs with 2 grown up children,
Sometimes I thinkwhat if but I am sure when anyone is having a sad day we all do. Sometimes we all like to believe that we are still in love with the memory of being in love.
Good luck to you. Cheers Kaye

I am currently going through this sea of confusion. I broke up with my first boyfriend because he cheated on me. Then 7 months later, I met a gentleman who was very understanding. I told him I still had feelings towards my Ex, but he was very patient and decided to win my heart over. I guess people make mistakes and I don't hold any grudges against my ex for what he did. But it still hurts when I think about it. Me and my ex were going out for four years. Anyways, right now I'm officially going out with this gentleman who decided to win me over, but during all this time, my ex boyfriend would also try to get me back. I've been dating my new boyfriend for three months and I still don't know what to do, I really like him a lot, but my heart is still wondering somewhere else... I am scared to let go of my new boyfriend because he treats me right, but I am also scared to let go of my first love. Should I give my ex a second chance?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 1 month
but im in love with my ex and I just cannot stop thinking about him I dont know what to do me and my ex were together for a couple months but I've knew himfor a ery long time and we were really really close and he was my first but somebody plzzz help!!!

I know it's very hard to get over someone who you loved and be in relationship with another guy.. I do understand you,I was so much in love when he broke up with me, he hurted me so much but I could give him a 100 chances just to be with him, just to look in his brown eyes...I compared every guy to him, I could do anything for him,one day I woke up and I decided to move on... Finally I met someone and he is much better than him =O)