I hate my girlfriend's friend

Ah, high school. The four years of Hell where nobody likes each other unless they act, dress, and talk a certain way. Glad to be away from that! Do you not get that the way you look at this girl is the same way you accuse her of looking at you? Cliques are a waste of time, they make absolutely NO difference after high school, they only open the door for high school kids to hate each other. I was “The Prep” for a while, but I just got sick of it. By the end of high school, I was friends with everyone, and had a WAY better time that way. If you don’t want to hang out with this girl because she isn’t in your clique, then don’t. But your girl can hang out with whomever she wants to, there is nothing you can do about it. I have been with my husband since the 9th grade, and we both have always had friends that the other couldn’t stand, but I hang out with my friends and he hangs out with his. This has saved us a whole lot of fighting over stupid things. And I suggest that if you don’t want to start a potentially relationship-ending fight with your girl, let her have her own friends.

I have tried to reak friends with her for 2 months. I have tried to find common things. and her homelife is great from what she tells my girlfriend. to be honost I think she is like that for attention at school, but im not to sure. I try to spark a convo with her, but she turnd everything into hate. it pisses me off so much

hey, People treat me like that at school.. I just tell them to gouge their eyes out and they walk away.. but Mike (can I call you mike?) what you do is make sure that your girlfriend’s friend doesnt smoke or drink… b/c if she does, then she’ll try to influence your girlfriend to…

but, really, tell the truth to your girlfriend.. be like, “your friend makes me feel uneasy” and then tell her why

GOOD LUCK

Well, sweetie, all you can do is explain to your girl that you want some alone time with her. Make sure that she knows when you will be hanging out with her so she tells her friend before hand. Let her know that you do not like this girl, and explain to her why. That’s probably the only way around it. Maybe your girl is just trying to help her. But either way, I hope it works out for you!

Then you have to help her. Maybe she has a bad home life, have you asked her? Just try to be nice to her. I know what a bad family life can do to a person’s emotions. I promise, she really won’t be that bad if you just ask her how her day is going, or find something you have in common. She will lighten up. How do you thing I became friends with people like that. I tried to understand them. Good luck and I’m sorry if my last answer seemed rude, I really wasn’t trying to be. ;)

ask your girlfriend whats so good about her and see what she has to say, you can’t force someone to not be friends with someone so there isn’t really much you can do about it, if it becomes a huge problem the only thing you can really do is talk to your girlfriend about it, you guys have been together a year so im sure you’ll meet an understanding on why she’s friends with this girl

You are very welcome…

ok, ill try that and let you know how it turm out. tanks a ton

I try to do everything in a good way.But I don’t understand why? everything I do. some people still have comment to me. I told my self. Maybe I do something wrong. And I tried to make it better. But some people still hate me. I know can’t to change it. But I don’t know how I can do. I just feel like. It’s not fair for me.