I hate her

I hate my mom I know it's a strong word I know all kid's get mad at there parent's. I know it's normal to say I hate my mom but I mean it I f*cking hate her .I am going to write why I hate her and I just want you to tell me if I am right or wrong.she...

tells me she listen's to be but she doesn't reply at times. She doubt's me all the time telling me I can't do stuff not like I'm not supposed to but just I can't do it when in actuality I can . She tells me I'm dumb or retarded she act's like a kid and doesn't know when enough is enough while arguing .she doesn't do what shes told I know that sounds bad but I mean I have been telling her for the past year to get me a dentist appointment and she still hasn't done it .I need her to do it cause she need's to take me to it cause it's a out of town appointment .she doesn't discipline me or my sister and my little sister really need's it shes 12 and shes like totally out of control. When I try to mother her my mother get's pised but it's like if I don't no one will. She left before x-mas vacation and she say's she got stuck out of town when in actuality she had ways to get home just chose not to take those ways. But any ways she supposedly got stuck and she didn't call to tell me she wasn't going to be home and I tried called her and other people to try and get a hold of her and I didn't get a hold of her till 2 3 day's later. Then after I got a hold of her I needed to speak top her after that then tried getting a hold of her I couldn't and then found out like a week later that she wasn't where she was supposed to be and she left .she tells people stuff that I don't want her to tell them like when I first started my period she told like my hole fam I was like what the hell and when I told her I was bi she told my friend. Lastly the worst possible thing she could do when I was 4ish she left me with my grandfather who ended up rapping me who happened to have rapped her when she was younger and had rapped some one she new now tell me this what kinda f*cking dumb a.s person leave's there child with a harmful person ? So any ways my big question how many of you think shes a bad parent ? And how many don't ? And please don't make up excuses for her I hate when people do that it piss's me off

same here with my mom.

I think maybe you are going to be a person that needs to stick around for your sister. I agree that your mother isn't the greatest! I couldn't imagine doing ANY of what you stated to my kids, but I am not her. all I can say is I am so sorry that you had to go threw the things you did. keep your sister safe, and do the best you can. I'm sorry.

I can't really do much with my sister I kinda hate her but I just hate my mom's parenting and I can't do much for her being as I'm not her parent so I can't parent her like she need's to be

um...WOW! sounds like you need to talk to her and tell her that SHE'S not a RESPONSIBLE parent . and how she neglects you and your sister and how that hurts you and is ruining your sisters life, tell her that you want the best for her and she should want the best for you, and dont worry when I TOLD HER I WAS BI she told the WHOLE FAMILY!!! now my grandma looks at me weird and so does my aunt to the point that she doesnt want me in her house. well any ways tell her that she can go to jail if she continues this... so other than that... um I cant do much for you sorry.
hope things worked out
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well I don't want to be taken from her then I wouldn't be able to be with my family I hate them some times but it's all good lol I love my dad though hes the best and my sister would die with out my mom my lil sister is crazy

at least you have your dad must be nice ta have 1 well I hope I've helped!

To be honest, your mom might need help.
Maybe you all could live with your dad??
Your mom is sorta outta control.

my dad doesn't live here and we can't long story would rather not go into it we can't be with any one but her

ha ha I have done that still hasn't worked and I really don't care about my sister I just don't like the way she acts to me he is and thanks

Are you genuinely confused about whether or not she's a bad mother or are you looking for sympathy?

no she is I have been told

Has anything happened with regards to your grandfather raping people??? If not something really should be, I know he's family and everything but still...
xox

You should tell her how you feel and see what happens..
If I were you, I would get the hell out of that house and run away
And for your grandfather, you should tell somebody..