Is this normal after sex or did something go wrong?

me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and it hurt soo bad and after awhile my crotch was sore for awhile and I also was bleeding..but I was bleeding a lot and for quite awhile..is that normal?

ooohhh yes...that is very very normal!
its just a sign of what some people call "popping your cherry"
its just basically an orgin inside you that is there ...
and when you have sex it pops open and yes blood comes out...
so dont worry your fine...just wait awhile before you have sex again...
-BNA

This isn't as normal as you might think.
I mean, it doesn't mean you're going to die or something, but it should NOT be expected.

Next time, go into it more slowly, and use enough lube.

Yes, it is very normal to have some bleeding when you first have sex. Wonder what part of the world underwaterophelia is from, not to know that?

A part of the world where sex is relaxed, the man enters slowly, and enough lube is used.

Guess you're unfamiliar with that kind of thing.

Look it is normal, Underwaterophelia got LUBED up like a car getting oil. She might be a little more experienced in other things, and knew what to expect when it came to intercourse.lol

Do worry, you are fine as far as that, but there maybe somethings that you might want to consider before having sex in the future.

You may not be ready just yet. In a lot of cases sex is not all that enjoyable the first time, for men and women. There are different reasons for this like
Men being nervous and having a hard time getting up
Women being nervous and not relaxed cause the vagina to tense up.
Men trying to hard to please the other, and end up hurting the person.
ECT...

When you have sex for the first time, there may be some discomfort and blood. The blood is known as Poppin the cherry. But what has really happened is, the hymen has been splitor broken. This can happen when you use tampons, causing pain or discomfort. The hymen may grow back in place if you don't use tampons regularly or you are not having sex yet. Which will cause it to break again once penetration(tampons,pen*s,fingers,ect) has happen again. Once the penetration becomes more of an often thing, your hymen should not grow back and the vagina should start to get use to the thing or person that is penetrating it.

Also, if your male friend tends to be a little large( his pen*s), this may cause some discomfort as well. Your vagina is a muscle, and it contracts. When you first start out having sex, it is very tight. It will begin to loosen up with every penetration. But if you stop having sex for a long period of time, like a month or two it may begin to tighten back up, but not to the fullest form. If you find that you are having trouble making enough lubrication within your body, then you can use different sex lubrications like KY Jelly to help with the penetration. These make the pen*s slide in a little smoother.
Or for UNDERWATEROPHELIA, slide into her lungs.lol
You can find these different lubrications at any drug store or walmart.

To help with the pain if you want to continue to have sex, you can take cool baths to help with the swelling, also ice. Maybe have your mate use the ice in oral. But that is a whole other topic. But a bath seems to work.
And dont worry, people who have been having sex for years still get that swelling, but you tend to like it alittle more when you know what you are doing.

Also if someone is causing you pain that you can not take, you need to tell them NO. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to.

I hope this has helped.
I'm a nurse and you can email me on here anytime you need help.