I feel ugly

I am 14 and have never been asked out or any of the other stuff
and boys have never really noticed me and I dont understand becuase my friends say that im pretty and stuff but im almost in highschool and never had a kiss or been on a date or anything...I...

just want to know WHAT is wrong with me?

okay im 18 and my first boyfriend was when i was 15. I never was kissed before that and my friends said the same thing. Trust me your not ugly and i think it has to do with the fact your more shy than anything. But when you meet your first boyfriend dont give out unless you want to. Your young and he will say anything to make you think he loves. DONT HAVE SEX. My mistake was i felt ugly and my first boyfriend made me not feel ugly so i thought he loved me. However he didnt so the guy i am with now i feel bad for becuase i now he truely loves me but i couldnt wait for him becuase i was stupid and immature.

ok i'm in highschool and trust me once u get there.... well u'll meet someone
trust me!

AND UR NOT UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i can see it in your pic that you are beautiful hun, i no you have low self esteem but you are only 14 and in time you will get to know people and people will start seeing you for the real you and the great heart you have. dont be so hard on yourself.

Dear Tera,

The only thing that is wrong is that you are only 14. You simply may not have had a boyfriend opportunity yet. YOU KNOW you are not ugly (Which is good) or else you would not put your picture up for people to see.
Don't worry about being kissed or having a boy like you. You are very pretty, if you really have no boys out there that notice you, than this just gives you time to have fun and do things with your friends. You probably have boys that like you but you may think they are to geeky for you,etc... and the boys you like are busy with someone else giving you the feeling of being un-attractive. Don't worry, have fun, down deep you know what you are about AND how you really appear. I will give you something to do, and you do it if you want.
Go to your nearest Childrens Hospital (MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT SICK..COLD,FLU, ETC..) and visit some of the children battling cancer. Tell them (nurses station) you wanted to visit and pass out some coloring books, (take some with you). AND you want to pass other things (toys/presents etc..) (YOU BUY THEM, NOT EXPENSIVE)..out for different age group girls and boys.
AND tell them you are just there to talk with any child that wants to talk. You will make alot of kids happy........Let me know. Good-luck!!
Familycoach

Nothing, I had my first gf at the age of 17, and I am 18 now. Your still growing and you won't stop growing until your like 25ish? Maybe? Well, trust me, your just 14, you don't need to worry about guys because you have ALOT of time on your hands anyway. When you grow older and your all beautiful and those guys will be like Oh snap she's hot! The wait is worth it. In the beginning of this year I had my first gf, we broke up and and now I am with someone who is 10 times better, on the day she asked me I was asked out by 2 other girls on the same day. Recently, well, maybe a month or 2 ago, 5 girls all at once told me I was cute and pretty good looking. Then they flirted with me and corned me and I screamed like a little 10 year old girl lol, that's who I am I don't fight girls, I'm a good guy like that XD!! Anyway, don't sweat it, your time will come, everyone's got that thing that happens to them at least once in a life time, relationships happen more often, remember, age 14 you don't need to worry about it so much. Good luck.

wwell maybe guys havent asked you out yet because the older ones want sex and the younger ones are wayy to intimidated...

wow i had the same problem but once i hit highschool i had mad boys cause i use to think i would neaver get a man or get kissed

theres nothing wrong with you. All you have to do is believe that you are pretty. thosse boys are not your type. I bet you in a couple of days after you start thinking that you are pretty, a boy or two will want to go out with you!!! trust me I have beenm through what you are going through.

lol.. believe me.. you're not ugly... i've never gone on a date in my life or had a gf or first kiss either so you're not alone and im totally shy around girls and can't even say anything for fear of they'll say something stupid.. and im also 15, i'm not the best looking guy either.. trust me but this is life, you have to make the best out of it weither it be good or bad..

Nothing is wrong with you mabey you just stay back from boys because in your pic I see a very attractive girl

Your crazy you are so beautiful don't put yourself down there is no need I promise you that..