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ok, im having this problem with my boyfriend. you see, I feel like he doesnt love me anymore... like im just an object to him... I cant stop crying about.. because wqhen I see him.. he doesnt want to be around me... I tried to talk to him sbout it... but he doesnt really want to listen... what should I do?...
It seems you got yourself into a situation that alot of young girls do. They get too emotionally involved at too early of an age! Young love rarely lasts, and you have put yourself in a very vunerable state. What seemed like love, really wasnt, because the truth is...love NEVER dies! Your boyfriend sounds like he is ready to spread his wings, and fly. He isnt going to tell you. Hes showing you, and actions speak louder than words! You've expressed your feelings to him, and he refuses to listen...thats because he is still very immature. He doesnt want to deal with any whining, so he is basically shutting you out. There is really nothing you can do. He is losing interest, and thats what happens with young love. Its a learning experience, that better prepares us for other relationships.
Yikes, sounds to me as though his interests have ventured elsewhere? Was there a big argument before he began this behavior? If you two still spend time together and he's just being an arse about everything, then theres the possibility that there is another in his life or he is wanting to be single again. The best way to get a clear answer is to directly ask him if this relationship is what he wants, or would he like to call it all off. Watch him closely for his reply. If he hesitates too long on a reply then he wants out. If he's quick on telling you NO, then you need to look him in the eyes and search. Eye contact is everything when you put someone on the spot. I really hope things fall in your favor but the truth shall set you free as they say. Good luck little lady.
MMMm well i sat dump his sorry a** ther is little else it sem as though you can do at this point i would say talk to him but if he does not wont to talk then there is nothing that you can do. How old are you and how old is he and how long where you two together?
Tell him you love him realy much and you might get back together.I hope it works!
we have been going out for 9 months... im only 15 and he is 16 years old...
Time to end the relationship...
