I feel like a loser

This is a message from me and my friend we will both tell of the things that make us feel like losers and we will let all of you decide if we are,my name will be Mike and my friend will be spider, ok well here we go, and we are guys by the way (NOT GAY)...

im 15 and spider is 14

Spider: I feel like if I died right now no one would come to my funiral

MikeSpider: We feel like everyone hates our guts cause we can not say a word to any one and they will hate us and everyone calls us butbuddys and its obvious were not gay.

Mike: I hate the fact that I don' have a deep voice.

spider: I HATE!!! THE FACT THAT IM AM A VERGIN!!!
Mike: I hate myself and like everything about me except for a few things, I dont hate my live I actually love my life I just hate my self?!?!?!??!?!?

Spider: well the thing I hate the most and kinda love at the same is that the fact that my chest is flippin deformed and goes inward.!?!?!?!?!?

People are going to call you gay and things like that at the age your at, because your best friends and your close. There is nothing wrong with you guys, kids just like picking on others because there effing retarded and try to show off for other people, you guys are no different from me and my best friend the only reason we don't get picked on is because we're girls, boys that age have homies not friends so the only time there hanging out with other guys is if there doing something stupid and getting in trouble or talking about sex, girls and crap they don't know anything about.

About having a deep voice.. If you haven't hit puberty yet or are going through it now it will come. If you already have then just try and accept that and don't give a f*** what people say, 90% of the people making fun of you now will look back and think why the hell did I do that, it was a waste of my time and it was really uncalled for that is if they ever grow up..

And being a virgin is a good thing at that age believe me.. I lost my viriginity at 17 and I still think I should have waited! There's so many risks with sex that aren't worth it and noones going to know if your a virgin unless you tell them. Then again you should be proud.. So many younger kids are having sex right now and thats why there are girls in middle school that are pregnant You are setting a good example for other kids.

well, if you don't like yourself, then why should anyone else like you?
try get a better attitude, think about your good aspects instead of the bad ones. quit feeling sorry for yourself

Don't make yourself feel down, that just makes you feel worse Admitting your flaws in a kind way like ''ok I admit I don't look like Brad Pitt.'' makes you feel better and laugh inwardly

Don't hate yourself because of things you can't change, if you don't have a deep voice, that's not your fault, you can't change that at your age.

Who cares if your a virgin. If people your age around you arn't virgins, they are manwhores. Sex at a young aint may seem cool, but in the long run, it wont get you far. Keep your virginity for someone special and don't rush to loose it just to fit in, it will make it seem like you tried too hard to get with the others.

Praise yourself and look for the good things about you. If you have cute ears, look in the mirror in the morning and go ''heey, wassup cute ears, looking good.'' And it will make you feel better. ^^ Trust me, I looked for all the good things about my appearance, and when I talk to people I try to enhance them by batting my eyelashes, smiling and playing with my hair. Lol.

You may think that your unloved and uncared for, but there are people out there that will love you for you and not care if you don't look like Brad Pitt. People that only care about looks are shallow and arnt people you want, hun.

If someone calls you buttbuddies or something retarded, just roll your eyes and walk past, and think ''what jackasses, atleast I have a future.'' Because it makes you laugh when you think that in 20 years time, they will be drug addicts with a criminal record and on benefits. Lol, makes me laugh every time :3

It takes time to build confidance, and the best way to do that is to hang out with friends, make new ones, meet old ones. I'm building confidance and it's working like magic, I feel like I've changed dramatically in the past year I felt the same as you, and even now I feel like there's something wrong with me, something missing, and I'm sometimes thinking ''Who would want me? Who's stupid enough to even like me?'' but that is just pathetic, that's like kicking myself while I'm down and just making it worse. So I just laugh about it and imagine that in the future I could have gorgeous kids with a sexy husband and living the high life in good old Japan :D

So feel good about yourself, hang out with friends, enhance your good features, show your personality and just SMILE! It helped me a lot. Message me back if you need help on anything else. K? I'm just 13 by the way, lol ^^ So my knowledge is limited.

Thats f_#$ed man you do kinda sound like loosers but everything can improve try finding a girlfriend you know start going out with her or date someone popular ,, plus when you loose your virginity ull change totaly

FIRST OF ALL HOW OLD ARE YOU TO BE TALKING ABOUT BEING VIRGINS AND DYING . I MEAN YALL CANT EVEN SPELL VIRGIN RIGHT. YOU ARE STILL YOUNG AND HAVE A WHOLE LIFE A HEAD OF YOU.SO DO THINGS RIGHT AND YOU ARE GOING TO GET MOST OUT OF IT. DO YOU WANNA KEEP HAVING SEX WHEN YOU ARE LIKE 50 THEN YOU BETTER NOT START NOW. LISTEN ...PEOPLE JUST TALK TRASH BECAUSE THEY GOT NOTHING TO SAY ...I MEAN EVEN GAY PEOPLE HAVE SEX . SO COMMON SENSE THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO TEASE SO TEASE THEM BACK WHERE IT HURTS. GOSHHH BOYS GROW UP AND THINK LIKE GROWN PEOPLE . YOU ARE STILL YOUNG.

AND PLUS WHAT IS A LOSER...A PERSON THAT IS GOING TO END UP ON THE STREETS WITH NO JOB THATS A LOSER...THE COOL PEOPLE IN YOUR SCHOOL ARE MOST LIKELY GOING TO END UP LOSERS 20 YEARS FROM NOW. SO BEFORE YOU START SAYING YOU ARE A LOSER START THINK OF THE THINGS YOU DO AS OPPOSE TO THE COOL BULLIES IN YOUR SCHOOOL.

I just want to say thanks to everyone this has been great advice and me and spider lol are way more confident in life and everything in general, we talked about it and you guys are totaly right, were going to highschool (freshman) and going through life with different aditudes, thanks everyone very much and I know who to go to when I need advice