I dont think im giving handjobs right... i'm embarrased when

Asked by radbananas over 4 years ago, 25 answers.

My boyfriend and I have been seriously commited to one another for about three months now. We are in love, and we have had sex. We are teenagers and both live with our parents, so it can be quite difficult to have sex all the time, and I suppose that...

would get kinda boring. We do other stuff, or attempt to anyways. He always wants to finger me, and eat me out when he can.. he LOVES to do stuff to me, you know.. But thats one of my problems. I shave, he likes it that way and so do I, but no matter what different gels I use or what razors.. I always get red bumps and ingrown hairs... I think its hiteous looking and gross.. so I am usually a bit reluctant to let him venture that way with his hands... and I am completly infatuated with his penis as well... lol... I dont have a problem with preforming oral sex.. but sometimes we can#039;t, and sometimes I don#039;t really want to, you know. It seems like so many times, he wants me to give him a hand job, and thats where the second problem is you see. I want to, and I try to, but its like this.. its dry.. and it doesnt realy look like my hands moving.. it takes the skin with it, and im afraid im hurting him. I've seen him do it himself and it doesnt look like that. he says he likes it but im not sure... when its wet, like if I was preforming oral sex, it seems to work a lot easier. I think if I use lube it would be better but I dont know. and he said once quot;ky?!?! what the f*ck.. im not some kind of sicko masturbation freak...quot; so I dont think hes really into experimenting with that...

is there anything I can do to make his handjobs feel better, besides like technique and what not? And what can I do about my shave bumps that are soo embarrasin?

pleese help me!

Answered by t18t on Jan 10, 2005, 10:20PM

ima beautician and truthfully even though it is popular shaving really isnt recommened.it wil cause bumps and ingrowing hairs whether it be shaving after once or twice or several times they eventually appear so as for shaving upwards or downwards it really doesnt make a differnce.if your not comfortable with the idea of waxing (which really isnt as bad as people make it out to be) try depilatory creams/hair removal creams try something free of perfume it would be less irritant to the skin.as for the handjob I would too recommend saliva and thrusting to the skin rather than the penis as somone has already stated

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Answered by dll6307 on Dec 28, 2004, 12:07PM

look i can#039;t help you with the shaving thing but i think i can help you with the handjob thing.....if your anything my gurl, i bet your tryin 2 move the his penis instead of his skin, and that#039;s wat hurts becuz it#039;s like your tryin 2 pull it off. try moving the skin instead of the penis becuz that#039;s wat gets us guys off.

Answered by countryatheart on Dec 30, 2004, 01:43AM
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hey... dont really know what to tell you about the whole hand-job thing but as for shaving... are you shaving upwards? like how you would shave your legs? because if you are then that can cause bumps. ive had those before when i was shaving like that... but ive noticed that if you shave down like in the direction that your hair grows then you wont get those bumps nearly as bad. also you could try aveeno shave gel... its really good about not irritating the skin. hope that helps. take care! happy

Answered by rbutterfinger69 on Dec 30, 2004, 02:05PM

hey welll im kinda experienced with that stuff and one time i was giving this one guy a hand job and told me it hurt when it is dry try spitting in your hand then doing it its a lot easier........for the shaving part r u shaving upward try shaving down ward and see how it goes ok well i hope it helps

Answered by fhens on Jan 09, 2005, 07:03PM

Try getting your hand wet with silva and just working on the head of it. Also you can try kissing and sucking on his niples while you are giving him a hand job.

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Ericson Answered by esconsult1 on May 04, 2005, 12:16AM
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For god sakes, don't use saliva. Some guys get really turned off by that!

Answered by barbie_girl on Jan 11, 2006, 06:38AM

if he lies down and you sit beside him of his right side and use your left hand, if will drive him insane. i'm not sure if it is best to face your fingers up or down just give it a try both ways. i am presuming that your guy still has his skin so hold him gently but firmly, it is retty hard to hurt them, and some times they like it.

Answered by barbie_girl on Jan 11, 2006, 06:39AM

if he lies down and you sit beside him of his right side and use your left hand, if will drive him insane. i'm not sure if it is best to face your fingers up or down just give it a try both ways. i am presuming that your guy still has his skin so hold him gently but firmly, it is retty hard to hurt them, and some times they like it.

Answered by bad_lover on Mar 31, 2006, 12:43PM
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right im a guy and i get given handjob's and i masterbate myself so dont try pullin the dick off it wont work tht will hurt
just move the skin

Answered by tenor_66 on Apr 26, 2006, 05:13PM

You should first wet your hands, and then use the wet hands to jerk his penis. That way the wetness will not make the skin come off and make the penis nice and firm.

Answered by lrowello on Jun 14, 2006, 01:24PM

okay. here's the deal. the first time i had sex, he didn't cum. that was embarrassing! i tried jerking him off once too, and boy, did that not work. our relationship ended months after all that jazz but it still haunts my memory. i must be terrible. i've been with this new guy for what seems like forever. i'm really falling for him, as is he for me. we talk about having sex, but so far it's yet to happen. i'm a pretty big tease and i can certainly turn him on. he's fooled around with me before, but i'm afraid to actually get into his pants. i really like him and i'd like to stay with him for a while. i just hope all this doesn't completely scare him away. anyway, the point is... i need some pointers or something. i've gotta be doing something wrong.

Answered by maiden on Sep 01, 2007, 03:40PM
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Ok, So I think I'm a bit older so here's my experience. So the guy does not like ky.. its got a gross name any way. There are a lot of really nice water based lotions that smell good and feel good that you can buy. You can get them on line if u don't want to go to an adult store. Tell him its massage oil... there's nothing like a hand job with a nice smooth massage oil. Careful with condom though if its oil based. My BF loves my handjobs cause of the lotion and it smells good to

my cutie boyfriend! Answered by babyjav on Apr 09, 2008, 04:17PM
9 answers

Moan while your doing it it tuns them on more so they would injoy the blowjob

Answered by mackbabyy on May 27, 2008, 01:39PM
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For the bikini bumps, try shaving downwards or sideways. It will prevent a lot of them, but nothing can prevent all. Chances are, your guy probably hasn't noticed them. Remember these two things: You always notice things about yourself more than other people notice about you, and if it was really gross to him, he wouldn't want to keep doing it.

As for the handjobs, if he says he likes it, he does. Keep doing what you're doing unless he starts saying it hurts. KY jelly apparently turns him off, so stear away from lubes, lotions, and oils. If pulling his skin bothers you, wet your hands with water.

Hope I helped!

Answered by leviangel on Jun 10, 2008, 02:00PM
49 answers

use lotion down there. I do and its smooth.

brown hair... Answered by skinnymini22 on Jul 17, 2008, 07:50PM
39 answers

ok for starters with the shaving part if you use Nair that really does help and it works really goos without irration and to tell you tha truth waxingreally doesnt hurt all that bad and about the hand job try like spitting on your hand or sumthing and focus more on the skin and the head it always works for me I mean don't hawk a luggy in your hand but you know what I mean...

banks Answered by s_i_m_p_l_i_m_e_n_t_e on Aug 28, 2008, 05:16AM
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yeah

Answered by nat86 on Sep 01, 2008, 03:48AM
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the way I see it is ask what he likes...
while giving a hand job just ask if he wants it rougher, softer, with more pressure... you wont know if your doing it right uness you ask

Rawwr=] Answered by sisienne on Oct 19, 2008, 09:09PM
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For the bumps shave downward and the handjon, use lotion or lube

Answered by fungirl24 on Nov 01, 2008, 01:16PM
9 answers

give him a blow job first get it wet then use your hands

Answered by pinkdottedbow on Apr 22, 2009, 07:37PM
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skinnymini22, Nair isn't supposed to be used down there... D;

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