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I dont know what to do

Asked by khas7177 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

I am a 16 years old and I am pregnant I and my boyfreind just died I told my sister but she didnt know what to do and my parents didnt help much either what should I do?

Answered by misskarasyrup28 on Oct 03, 2008, 11:04PM

My heart goes out to you and your baby. I can't imagine how you feel, but trust in God. You have to. Are you alone ? What happened to him?

Satan's Little Helper (threadless design) Answered by mysterywolf on Oct 04, 2008, 01:58AM
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Sorry to hear about your boyfriend. You have to decide now if you want to keep the baby or not. You have 3 options - keep, abort, or put up for adoption. You must have a long hard talk with your parents, and also relatives if they can help.

You must decide, and if you decide to keep the child, ask your parents if they can support you through it - mentally, emotionally, and financially. They will be your best support system. And they can help drive you to clinics for checkups and other needs.

I know it must be hard because the baby will remind you of your late boyfriend, so you need to think through this. If your parents refuse to help, get your friends or a relative to help take you to Planned Parenthood or a family planning clinic. Depending on your financial situation, they will be able to assist you in some programs or welfare that you can get on if you want to raise the child. If you want to abort the child, they will also be able to assist you (some will have that service, or if they don't, they will give you a contact or address to a place that does).

All the best to you.

Answered by prilly on Oct 04, 2008, 02:10AM
17 answers

You are in a hard situation, one I can barely imagine, but what I can say is that this is about whether or not you can find the means to take care of that baby, or if you could handle an abortion. If you want to abort the baby do it before you get to far along, because it will only get harder and more tramatic as it grows... putting up for adoption... is a serious solution... maybe there is a family friend willing to adopt and let you be part of the babies life...
No matter what a tough road awaits you... Find friends and support groups and don't be afraid to let your family take care of you as you battle through this...
I hope you find the best solution for you and your baby.
I'm so sorry about your boyfriend...
I wish there was more I could do.

Answered by daydreamer41 on Oct 06, 2008, 12:28PM
62 answers

you need to watch the movie How to Deal with Mandy Moore...it's basically your story

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