I dont get it ?! (sorry if this is quiet long)

well I like this lad, and he said he is not sure weather he likes me or not
so yesterday me and him meet up and we was sat on some grass and that talking and whatever.. ye we was getting on well, then he like moved on to me and we got off for like...

ages .. so then we went into town to get sumet to eat and that. and then later on we went back to where we was sat before but this time it was more in a closed off place, and we was talking and that agen but he was really flirting he started to tickle me so then we started gettin off again.. ii ended up tossing him off (handjob) and he tried to put his hands down my trousers but I had to stop him because I was on my period..
then later on that night he msg me on facebook so I dont want to break your heart.. so I replyed saying what do you mean,.. and he said he dont know weather he likes me or not and dont want to hurt me.. but he didnt regret what happend.. but then he started going on saying that it was a good day and that .. ii really dont get it.. does he like me ?
what are his feeling towards me ?
we get on soo welll but ii dont get it at all!

help me please !

x

sorry if this upsets you, but if he got off with you (twice) and accepted a hand job of you and yet he's unsure that he likes you then it is quite possible that he used you and is not interested in havin a relationship with you, so b careful, on the other hand he could genuinely like you but said he's not sure because he's nt wanting a relationship right now. I think you should talk to him and ask him outright

he has said to me he is not sure if he wants to go in a relationship yet..
but he aint the sort of lad that uses girls..
but then me and my bestfriend was on about last night.. every lad is actually the same none of them are simple lol..
but guess im just going to have to wait and see how this turns out

yeh only time will tell, why do boys have to be so complicated?? lol and hopefully it will turn out well for you, good luck!!

The ONLY thing I see him wanting are his needs met! If he liked you in the RIGHT way, things wouldnt have gone as far as they did. I think he was hoping to score, and since he didnt, he no longer wants anything to do with you. You should NEVER give a boy anything sexual if you arent in a loving, commited relationship with him, because that is where a girl ends up getting hurt. She thinks because he is getting physical with her, he must like her, but Hun, that isnt how boys work! Hold on to your self respect, and dont give it out so carelessly. Boys date decent girls, not easy ones!!!

I disagree, giving a boy something sexually when your not dating them doesnt make you easy and it doesnt mean that they're only using you, he could genuinely like you so much thats why he wanted it to go that far plus as you said he did attempt to give you something in return so he wasnt just after getting a hand job from you, but do b careful because they cant all b trusted

angelfire ; he serioulsy isnt that sort of boy and I am not just saying that.. he really is a nice decent lad, he just said he dont know what he wants and that he did soter of like me, but oh well I will soon find out

If he was a 'nice lad he would respect you, not take advantage of you! If he doesnt know what he wants, then he shouldnt be getting physical with you? Hun, you are much too young to really know how the male mind works.

This is an indication of what I am trying to tell you**we went back to where we was sat before but this time it was more in a closed off place, and we was talking and that agen but he was really flirting he started to tickle me so then we started gettin off again..**The second time was in a more secluded area, so why exactly do you think he did that? Because he wanted more from you! You really need to stop defending his character because everything you've said points to...he ISNT a decent lad! A decent lad RESPECTS girls, he doesnt get sexual with them.

**he has said to me he is not sure if he wants to go in a relationship yet..
but he aint the sort of lad that uses girls..**Your just not getting it!! If he isnt the sort of lad that USES girls, then things NEVER would have gotten sexual. You dont do those sort of things when you arent even in a relationship with a boy. The fact is hes telling you he isnt sure he wants a relationship with you yet, then he shouldnt be doing what hes doing to you, because its only making you THINK that if you give him what he wants that it will make him want a relationship with you. If a boy can get free sexual favors from a girl, then he will take it, but that isnt going to make him wanna date you Hun.

I could be wrong but I really reckon he is just usin you...takin you as an easy ride...talk to him for longer if you feel you need to but if he trys it on again just resist it and then obv you no he's just in it for the pleasure :/ x