I dont get it

ok for one im a pretty girl with good morals I am very mature for my age im smart im sweet and nice im almost perfect but well of course at times im just a mess but I dont get why I can never find a good guy you kknow I always get guys but not the ones I...

want and they are always looking for sex but well im not like that I got respect for myself and I just dont have sex with anyone you know its wroing so what the best way to find a good guy with the qualities you want

well i can tell with how you asked the question were your going wrong, im pretty im, im sweet, im nice.... the man is suposet to tell you all that not you telling them, it looks like theres no room for a man to love you as you love youself to much. you are a pretty girl and proble all the other things u said about yourself but let them do the talking, and ye change the name if you dont want people to think your up for it, dont have a name that sounds like a horny girl

Dear Lovemaker 7, you say how old you are but did you ever hear the song looking for love in all the wrong places? Well I'd bet your on that track. Sorry to say but step back a pace or two and take a look at the your travels. There are a ton on decent nice guys out there looking for the same thing you are. Churchs are a good place to start, volunteer jobs usually attract people that give rather than take. I'm proud to hear your not using sex to attract someone because that's always the wrong angle. Look around and don't be lazy give all you've got. It sounds like you've got a lot to give. . . . . JC

Dear lovemaker7,
Because you are looking for attention you will take the guys who are not suitable for you. We all want attention so what is different about you and other girls who seem to find the right guys??? Ask yourself this question. Are they prettier, slimmer, smarter, do they have way more friends, are they in the drama club...you get the point. We look for guys with the same qualities as we have. Saying that look at what type of guys you are dating...be friends first to find out if they have the right qualities that match yours and are you happy with YOUR qualities??? If not then it's time for some self-searching and perhaps some rethinking of how you want come across to others. Be what you admire in others learn to be who you want to be. Practice makes perfect.
Sue....good luck

you're young and you will find the right person in time.
Be up front let them know your likes and dislikes.
Honesty is still the best policy.