I don't want to cheat on my husband. i need help.

I have been married to a great guy for 10 years. We have a child and most people looking into our relationship from the outside would say that we have the perfect life. I#039;ve worked so hard in making the outside look quot;Flawlessquot; that I...

forgot to work on the inside.

Long story short, here is the issue, I have been flirting with a younger, very established man. I am extremely flattered. A few days ago, we kissed. I did not stop it. In fact, I am consumed by the idea of quot;wanting morequot;. I think about him constantly. I want this feeling to stop because the guilt is eating me up inside. I can#039;t sleep or eat. I think about him all the time.

I told my husband about it and he said, he asked me if it was over. I said quot;yesquot;. He gave me a kiss and said quot;good, I don#039;t want to talk about this again. All I ever wanted is you, don#039;t do anything to ruin what we have, I love youquot;.

After the conversation with my husband, I still look for ways to communicate with this other man. How do I make these feelings go away. I want my life back to the complacent state that it was in 2 months ago. Please help.

This is great to hear of other's experiences. Thank you mysecret for offering actual solutions on how to stop thinking about the new flame. It would be great to hear from others too that have actually had success in resisting/avoiding/overcoming the temptation to cheat or pick up and leave.
I've been together with my boyfriend for a long time, had many ups and downs, love him but sometimes not sure if I am in love, well temptation has come along - and I'm suddenly feeling out of love - and I realize that's exactly what happened the last time.
Gotta be good. But damn! The thought of newbie feels so good - aren't we supposed to feel good? OK, I'm gonna try to use the techniques to feel good.