I cant feel anything and I hate faking

I cant feel anything during sex and I have had sex servels times!!! I hate faking b/c I dont enjoy it so when that certin someone is in the mood it bothers me I dont feel a single thing? Am I messed up? I dont want to go to no dr or nothing like that id like to know whats wrong with me!

ok uh..I dunno if this will help but um..my neighbor(hes married) told me that the clitoris makes the woman feel really horny or more 'passionate' on doing IT with someone. so um....I think your partner isnt hot enough for u...I think...dunno if that helps but, watever ^-^

No it doesnt help at all that was the wortse advice I have ever heard in my life!!!!!!!

oh im sorry for not being a good adviser T_T

Yah it was horriable HOW IN THE F**K is that pose to help sorry im so stressed about this I cant figure it out!

perhaps asking your bestfriend?

I tried she look at me like im DUMB

how about your mother? or your aunt? anyone thats close to u?

Oh hell no I am not asking them my mother doesnt not im haveing sex nor does my dad BAD IDEA!

oohhh...hm...hey uh.. going out of topic really quick...how long is sex supposed to last? like how many minutes or hours?..ok back to topic...hm...like I said im not really good at advising but um..going to like a doctor that knows a lot about affections adn all that

I dont have an effetion

Maybe hes small..lol..sorry..no really I use to have the same problem with me and my boyfriend..its because your really wet you may not feel the wetness but trust me its because your really wet..like your inside juices gets all out and it messes it up to were you no longer may feel it..make sure when you start to have sex make him go slow so that you dont juice fast so you may be able to feel it..

man im running out of ideas here...yep....I think im out of ideas

How long has it been since you first had sex? Usually it takes a while until you get used to the new sensation and start actually enjoying it. For some girls (like me) it can take months. First it hurts several times, then it's dull and feels like nothing, then after a while it starts feeling good. It's just your body getting used to it. Like I said, it's different for every person, so you may be of the ones who need more time to get it to feel good. Lots of practice is the only way I guess.

thats a hard one to answer.. is it that you dont feel anything at all or you just dont feel pleasure. he could be small, or your just not enjoying it yet. I remember there was a point when sex was just pointless to me when I first started because I felt no pleasure at all.. it will change. im really sorry I dont think I can help you on this one.

ooh I also think that if you dont mas*urba*e that you should.. the more you pleasure yourself and get to know your body the easier itll be to enjoy sex

but isnt too much mas*urbat*on bad for your body?

noo.. not unless your hurting urself. haha and its not like im tellin her to do it 20 times a day

but I read it somewhere that if you c*m a lot, you might develop ED, memory loss and hair loss and some other stuff.

He may need to take things a little slow with you make sure you horny and wet hope that help a little

Memory loss and hair loss, yeah, also your fingers may fall off from the friction, and your eyes will pop out from the strain. Come on. It's perfectly healthy, and unless you're rubbing yourself on jagged glass, nothing bad will happen to you. Grow up, people.

yeaah I dont know how it could possibly be bad for you

when you say you cant feel anything, do you mean you're not aware of his pen*s being inside you or do you mean that you are just not feeling the pleasure?

I have the same problem, I feel it, but no pleasure...could it be that im desensetised or something?

HE IS TINY

I have the same problem I dont know wut's wrong

Ok, watch the movie 'Oh, in Ohio'. You are not having an uncommon problem. If you can't make yourself feel good though.....well it is very difficult to get anything from a guy who just wants to put it in and go back forth till he is done. Sex is more than just the pen*s/vagina contact which we are all prone to think. There is a lot of mental stimulation and proper 'petting' that is involved. Look for the Osaki Twister (I think that is the name) online and do some self exploration. Set a mood for sex as well. Sex in the back of a car can be terrible or fun depending on the situation and the same goes for a bedroom. Bottom line is that if you can learn to bring yourself to org**m (preferably without the device, but it is a good place to start so that you can get there easier) then you will always enjoy sex because you can help yourself when he isn' t helping. There are a lot of inexperienced men that talk big but can' t perform, I would say probably over 75% of us. I know that I am good, but that took a ton of experience and finally a partner that I have been intimate with for a very long time now.

It's not that your boyfriend is tiny. My boyfriend is big and I can't feel anything either.

It's because you get so juiced up that any sensations are minimized.

Women moaning on TV and the in movies, when they're getting screwed - that's bullsh*t.

I love to make out with my boyfriend. I could happily never have sex again and be satisfied with make out sessions. If you want an Org**m - use a vibrator.

Just tell your boyfriend that you're a 'take it or leave it' kinda person when it comes to sex. He should understand and at least you won't have to fake anymore.

I have the same problem, we've tried different positions, sex books from Barnes and Noble, different condoms, and I am going to the obgyn. He's afraid he's small, but he has satisfied a woman before... I am getting really nervous because we want to be in a serious relationship but he doesn't want to spend the rest of his life with a woman who can't be satisfied like him! Please someone help!

I don't mean this in a sort of scary pervy way but do you get pleasure when you touch yourself down there?

Perhaps just give it some thought, you don't need to reply on here but the answer may help you focus more on what the problem may be.