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I can't stand my parents! help!

The Bean in Chicago my hometown Asked by mariachitown about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

My parents are too overprotective! period! I cant do anything! even my aunts and uncles, and my cousins say they are too strict! I absolutely know they mean well and they love me but I cant take it! my cousin tells me I should get a modeling agency...

to sign me, cause im into modeling right now and thats what I want to do, and move to new york away from this craziness! but the thing is, its not that I just cant stand them, a lot of things have happened and still do happen. I just moved out of my moms house because her husband was very verbally violent. they were having problems. Me and her husband got into q fight and after that I moved with my dad. my dad goes out all the time! he always puts his friends and his party time before me. I mean im in good living conditioms @ his house, but im constanlty alone. my dad is also and alcholic. I dont see him at all through the day but when I do see him its in the middle of the night after he comes home from a party and hes stumbling because hes so drunk. I've never felt safe in my life. I mean one night a group pf guys were yelling at me as I was going in my house and my dad wouldnt open the door for me becuase he was passed out and couldnt hear me. when he did open the door I went up to my room and cried. The guys were still yelling at me I was so scared and I knew my dad couldnt protect me becuase he was drunk and passed out. the only person that made me feel safe was my boyfriend. he called the police for me and told me that he would protect me and he would never let anything happpen to me. He is the only person that has ever made me feel safe. and now im not allwoed to see him becuase my parents dont like that hes 19 and im 16! I am so mad! so basically my dad is a drunk, im home alone al the time cause I have nowhere to go and my mom is at her house with her husband trying to work things out after he made it clear that he absolutley despises me. So my mom is chosing a man that hates her daughter over me and left me alone with my dad. And when I finally felt safe with my boyfriend, my parents toook him away form me, becuase hes suposedly too old! They only met him 2wice. They never even bothered to look at how much he cared asbout me and hopw much he loved me me, and they just took him away. it makes me mad becausse my dad is out drunk and leaves me by myself at night, and my mom chise a hateful man who despise me over e and then they try to tell me what is good for me?!!! my boyfriend was there for me when they werent! and theyre going to tell me that hes not good for me?!!! What about all the sh*t they put me through!!! is that good for me?!!! I dont think so!!! basiclally im going insane and I want to get outta here. I've even gone as far as thinking about movign out on my own when im 17. or moving in with my aunt when I can drive.( 6 months). what do you think, should I work hard to make it as a model, I mean im already working hard right now with a photographer. should I move out on my own? I dont think I can tkae my parents s*it for 2 more years. I thinkl I would end up insane! No joke!

dis is da first letter of my name!! Answered by shopaholicgirl84 on Jul 25, 2008, 12:29PM
74 answers

just chill k take it easy dont talk to em for 1 hr k then go to the mall buy some gifts for em relax your self go to a spa anyway my advice is ferget about it relax

Answered by hope03 on Jul 25, 2008, 01:19PM
98 answers

Well the thing is I cant tgo anywhere because Im alone all the time becuase my dad is out partying!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jul 25, 2008, 02:22PM
53985 answers

try to get into a foster home thats what I am in the process of doing.

:( Answered by allie15 on Jul 25, 2008, 03:58PM
18 answers

if I was in the same situation I would try to runaway to my boyfriend

Answered by bobopinky11 on Jul 27, 2008, 08:43PM
6 answers

I was in the same situation! I cant stand anything my parents do, one day my dad came home already mad over the stocks and stuff! and my sister and I got into a silly fight and my dad came runnning up the stairs! like he was PISSED! and he started getting mad at me! I was so scared! and then he started going crazy! itold him to leave me alone so I can calm down cause iw as having this anxiety attack! but that made him more mad! and things got worse so I went into the bathroom to sit down to calm down! and I SUPPOSEDLY slammed the door! which made him more mad! And my mom had to come in and help me! It was just getting out of control! and I remember when I was a kid that my sister would call at like 4 in the morning saying shes in BC! I was shocked ! And she always had a grudge against me! I never knew why she was always fine with my other siblings ! but never me! and she always would say she hated our parents and I knew why ! cause now im older and trying to get a job they think their loosing me! but I got a job to stay AWAY FROM THEM! im so confused! and I did have a boyfriend! who cared about me so much! and I know excatly what you mean! I wish I could run away with my aunt she always tried to help me so did my favorite cousin! who was always their for me! And I did end up going with my boyfriend! until my dad called the police on him! saying he has taken me away! and TRUST ME ! it wasnt a fun night! But what did you end up doing I could use some advice!

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