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I can't hold my tears

Asked by sinindespair 4 months ago, 5 answers.

I never loved anyone as much as I love my girlfriend...
I just get so sad whenever we argue or I can't see her or something...
and it just tears me apart that people on this website have the audacity to tell me I can trust them to not try to steal her...

away from me.
then speak to her in the same manner behind my back.
I hate everything so much right now. I am so close to crying and breaking and just going off on anyone.
I want to let this go. I want to be how she wants and I just forget everything.
but I can't this is who I am
I forgive but never forget and I'm just so tired of it. because there's a looong list of forgiveness but an even longer list of things I have not forgotten.
I want to be happy. I want to know who to trust and I want to know why it's so difficult to say the truth.
Tell me right now if you know you're trustworthy.
No I think so or I've been told so
just that you know you've never lied to anyone in such a way that they can never trust you again.

Answered by ty on Jul 14, 2009, 04:52PM
10116 answers

lol captain.

You really need to calm down. No one likes arguing or not being around the person they care for, but the reason it probably upsets you more than it would anyone else is probably your thoughts get carried away... a fight is just a fight. It doesnt mean she's leaving and never coming back. Try and keep things in perspective...

And people cant be stolen... If she chooses to leave, then she chooses to leave. You just have to trust that she wants to be with you. And when she doesnt want to be with you, then she wont. And you will go on and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them...

1 person thought this was helpful

Answered by soccerlovely on Jul 14, 2009, 03:57PM
47 answers

I'm not exactly sure what you want advice on?

Answered by captainassassin on Jul 14, 2009, 04:05PM
6184 answers

Oh dear god... --___--

You know, there's usually only enough room for ONE drama queen per relationship.

Answered by soccerlovely on Jul 15, 2009, 01:52PM
47 answers

ok...I'm sorry I don't really know how to help. Good luck

Answered by sinindespair on Jul 15, 2009, 02:01PM
75 answers

no need to.
the tears are gone.
I'm over this mess.
captain assassin's right.
there's no room for 2 drama queens.
but thank you anyway.

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