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I can't change !!

.jpg Asked by rainbowxxyaya about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

I told my mom like in 2007 that I liked both genders and she said that if I don't change I'm not going to be her daughter anymore. I can't belive my mom won't accept what I like. I can't belive that if don't contiune to like guys. I'm going to be kicked...

out. (I'm a girl by the way) I told her if I like girls I like girls. but she dosen't belive me. she just thinks I'm going to like guys and have a family like her one day. should I change for her or should I stay bi. until I find out what I like. but right now I like girls instead of of guys. I don't know what to do.

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Nov 23, 2008, 07:36PM
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You cant choose your sexuality, you are what you are. You're only 14-years-old though so don't be so sure about your sexuality, as you get older you'll start to learn more with experience and such. You might just be bi-curious.

Answered by wanna_disco on Nov 23, 2008, 09:32PM
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stay bi, your mom will accept your sexual being one day soon. if she doesnt, then she doesnt love you, and I am sure she does love you. she is just frustrated and prob thinks your going through a stage or something. explain to her you cant change who you are attracted to, and she will learn to accept you. wish you the best. dont change, your just letting her win that way.

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on Nov 23, 2008, 10:42PM
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bi-curiouse means beings sexually atracted to the opposite gender, but open to experimentation with the same gender
bisexual means being equally sexually attracted to both genders
it doesnt matter who you are though, your mother should accept you
theres is nothing wrong with your sexuality
and it certainly doesnt make you any less human
you have the same right, the same opinions, your still the same person you always were, you just have a different sexual preferance
humans are sexual beings, and theres a lot of different sexualities out there
your sexuality doesnt mean you still cant have a child of have a family
you could adopt, or use sperm from a donor to conceive, you and your partner can raise a child just the same as a straight family can
your sexuality doesnt affect you having a family or having a kid
you like girls, you have a different sexual preferance to your mother, and your sexually attracted to the same gender instead of the opposite
...there isnt anything wrong with you or your sexuality
I hope your mother can see that, or at least learn to deal with it
dont feel forced to change your sexual preferance just to please someone
its your right as a human being, stand up for it

Me again Answered by xxxmashxxx on Nov 24, 2008, 07:39AM
90 answers

You mom sounds like my dad. When I told him I was bi. He laughed and said yeah right. If I were you I would scare my mom, As in say fine I'll move out she will break at the closest moment.

Answered by clarabear25 on Jan 06, 2009, 06:25PM
52 answers

Don't listen to your mom. Its not her decision, its yours. Don't let someone tell you that you need to change because you are different. So if your really worried about it, you might have to sneak around if its truley what you like. Just remember you are what you are and you can't change it.

Oh, and their are pleanty bi, gay, and lesbian people out there. Its not as uncommon as everyone thinks.

Hope I helped.

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