I been liking this guy for ages now and my friend just now tells m

I have this HUGE crush on this guy. This guy asked me out a long time ago but I said no because of some personal problems even though I did like him at that time and ever since. There was a party yesterday and me and him would talk and sit and pretty...

much flirt. My friend pulled me aside and said that she liked him to. I was very shocked but she is a really good friend of mine so I acted like it didnt bother me. I really like this guy but thats one of my best friends too. And my friends been telling me that he is going to ask me out. I want to say yes so bad but I am worried it will hurt my friendship with her and I dont want that to happen? SWhould I give up a best friend for this wonderful guy or give up a wonderful guy for a best friend?

Dear izzie 742,

if you really like this guy, you should go for it. even if your friend does like him. i mean im sure she doesnt like him all that much, probably not as much as you anyways. so if he asks you out say yes, because you and your freind will always be friends no matter what, and you and her wont even think about not being friends over some guy. and besides she#039;ll get over him soon, trust me. lol. so good luck!

This exact same thing has happened to me, and what you really need to do is talk to your friend. If she is really your friend, she will understand what you are going through and you two can come to some kind of an agreement. Most likely, this guy isn#039;t worth ruining your friendship over, so both of you should just move on and forget about him. But if he really means that much to you, then go for it... but realize that you are risking your friendship.

dear person who gave the advice to izzie742,
you said that she would be risking her friendship, but what you dont know is i was that other friend thats why i told her to go for it and it was no problem ok ok buh bye

I just got my chances of going out with my best guy friend on whom I've been crushing on since forever cuz of my so called friend. And I've liked him for 3 years!! She's only liked him for a couple of months. And he asked her out, knowing I liked him! Gurl, take the guy cuz you might not get that chance again! Good Luck and much love^^

If you really like this guy then talk to your friend and make sure she is okay with you going for the guy. but always remember. BUDS over STUDS. never put guys before your best friends