I am too tight

My boyfriend really turns me on, but I never seem to be wet enough, I even need oil to get fingers in. And when we have sex, we always have to put more oil on his dick several times. Sometimes we can't even have sex at all, with oil, because it hurts...

to much. I am tired of this, anyone who have the same problem or can give advice how I can make myself wet?

it's just going to take time for you to loosen up, make sure you are using a water-based lubricant, and condoms... oil-based lubricants will break down the latex, and the condoms are helpful because most of them are lubricated as well. And of course help prevent pregnancy and the transmission of STD's/STI's

Clitoral stimulation during (and of course before) sex will help a lot. You might even want to invest in a vibrator. (I like the Pocket Rocket).