I am only 13!!

this guy and I were hooking up and it went farther then what I expected. I was scared at the time so I didnt say no. so we had sex and now he wont talk to me anymore. I feel used and abused. I cry myself everynight to sleep. what should I do?!?!?
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why did I do it?
(this is not mine my little sisters friend wanted some advice sao I let her use my fun advice page for all you hater out there!!!)

Hun, you need to tell the truth. On, Monday the 11 of July, at 1:06pm, you clearly stated in the relationship category that you were 18, never had an oragasm while your boyfriend fingerd you, and that you had never had sex, because you were to young. Now, here, the same day, just a few minutes latter, you say that this guy, and you hooked up and had sex, which would mean that you would have had to have had sex in ltess than 20 minutes and then found a computer and wrote a second question. Doubtful, yet possible. But then, you dumbly title you question, I am only 13. when about 20 minutes back you said you were 18, and had a boyfriend and no sex aor orgasms. Get the story straight, this sight is for acutal problems, not made up sh*t so you can be amused. I am not going to answer your question because one or the other or both are clearly lies. Dont bull sh*t this sight and its hard-working advice givers.

HUN! your STILL A BABY! 13 YEARS OLD! YOU NEED TO STOP BEING SEXUALLY ACTIVE AT THIS AGE. CHILDREN AT YOUR AGE THINK THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHEN THEY HAVE A boyfriend. YOU CAN NOT KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE IN LOVE AT THE AGE OF 13. AND PRESSERE IS THE WAY GUYS TRY TO GET IN TO your PANTS. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO SAY 'NO'. WELL, YOU MADE A MISTAKE AND NOW YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT. NO MORE CRYING YOURSELF TO SLEEP! MOVE ON AND STOP BEING SEXUALLY ACTIVE!! THAT GUY WAS AN ASS! YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID WAS WRONG HUN. GET IT OFF YOUR MIND AND DO NOT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN!
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Listen babe! im only 13 too ! and a few months ago I was out with mi mates and there was this really cool guy and I really lyked him so we got to together a couple of times! it has only been about 2 weeks and alredi we were at 3rd base! I knew things were going too fast but I thought he loved me! so eventually it got to the point were he wnted to f**k me! I really didnt want to but I knew that if its what he wanted it must of been right! Luckily enough I pulled out at the last minute! and in the end it did turn out that the guy only wnted to f**k me and then move on ! ! Hun you gota get over him hes a wee dickhead and he aint worth your tears! lvya chick ! x0x

this is so stupid, you are 13 and shouldnt even be thinking about sex.your bodies havent even developed properly...

obviously she can do what the f*ck she wants, and since she did it I wouldnt talk to her like she is 5 years old, don't wory about it, and get one of your guy freinds to beat his ass...

it ok if he doesn't talk to you don't try talking to him want has happend has happend what was dod was do you can move on

look im young too. Im a teen to at your age I had a boyfriend. He still is actually. But I know some people say that when you in your lower teens that your to young to have sex and stuff but I think you can do whatever you want. The fact that he decived you is mean and he was being an ass whole. You were to blind to see it, it's not all your fault. I know it might not be easy for you to forget him, but try, try another guy who will not try to get in you pants so soon. But remember, you gotta move on. You dont need a guy all the time to fill your sexuall needs. Plus, the otha boy probably doesnt know what he's missing. Forget about the bi--h. Move on! : )

I dont no what countrys your from but in ireland sex at 13 is WRONG. people are tellin her is ok 2 do sumtin rong, that she can do at she wants, if people keep tellin her dis her life will be ruined before shes 20, I'm 13 an dont care bout sex I care bout frends an livin my life while I'm young! she should 2
*Lil' sis!*

I am soo sry that happened to yu.. But yu have to know when to say STOP!!! other wise people will take advantage of yu.. trust me I learned the hard way. . .
and I suggest you stop stayin sexually active fur now and have fun ... you can have fun and be in a good relation ship with out sex you know.. im 14 and me and mi boyfriend are planing to do it togther later on in life =]] and were really happy. .right now