I am having an affair with my wife's best friend

I found myself in an affair with a friend#039;s wife.
She#039;s my wife#039;s best friend.
After my wife died last year, she came to see me to check up on me.
Everything#039;s been cool and normal.
It#039;s been almost a year now.
A few weeks...

ago, we don#039;t know what happened, we just found ourselves in bed. We both enjoyed the sex so much her visit has now turned into a sexual event, a very enjoyable event.
We enjoy each other very much.
We talked about it. She#039;s married to the guy for 30 years. She found out soon after the marriage that her husband is a violent, selfish and dominating person. She tried to run away with her daughter once but he caught up with her and threatened to kill the daughter. She tried to run away with her son a few years later, got caught, and her husband threatened to kill the son. Since then, she never tried to run again. She stayed to protect her children. She had not have sex with him for three years now because he had bad ulcer and he can#039;t handle the pain during sex.
She#039;s a wonderful person.
Damn, what am I doing?

It sounds like the only thing you need to worry about is how crazy this guy is going to get when he finds out his wife is screwing around on him. If he would threaten to kill his own children I would hate to see what he would do to you when he finds out you are taking his wife for a roll in the hay. It sounds like you and this lady are both needing some company and it is good you found each other but I would be concerned for your personal safety.

you seem to be a kind person who met another lonely lost soul... any port in the storm for you and yours is what this sounds like.

you are putting her and her child in danger if what you are saying about the abuse is true.

this will only end in tears if you dont stop and find a different path, a different approach to this. whether or not you have any intention of staying with woman for the long term, you really should be going about this sensibly and properly.

take a break and get yourself sorted.

buy a gun and shoot the bastard,,,girl bashers deserve to be beaten