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You fell in love with a guy that only comes down once a year? Thats not saying much for your fiance! Then the love you have for him isnt true or very strong! Why are you marrying him for then? You have to get your sh*t together and decide what you want. Somewhere down the road your going to have to turn off anymore feelings you might have for other guys, if this ever happens again! Life isnt about falling in love over and over. Its deciding whats more important, and sticking with it!
Racheal, Love is a tricky business, and I suspect that you are just beginning to find that out.
The question you have to ask yourself is, if you are in Love with this other guy from Seattle, are you really sure that you do truly love your fiancee? In my opinion this is the kind of thing that you really need to talk through with someone. If you are close to your parents then I would advise discussing it with them? Otherwise a close friend, or perhaps even a Neutral, in the UK we have several advicelines you can call to talk to someone neutral, and I have found in my life often just sharing a problem can help.
You dont know what you want. The seattle guy probably has another woman. Or why do you think he only comes once a year- and for a project? Get a life or die. You are not ready for a commitment.






I am falling in love.. help me make the right decision
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I will be getting married in 3 months and I love my fiancee so much.
At work, I fell in love with a guy who lives in Seattle, USA and I live in another continent.
He comes every year for the same project I work for.
Should I tell him how much I feel for him because his response will determine whether I should cancel my wedding or continue with my fiancee
Is what I am doing justifiable? or I will make a big mistake by dumping my fiancee?