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I am 15 years old, and i think i want a baby.

Asked by aashleymp1993 about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

I'm generally happy as I am, though I imagine I could be happier. But couldn't everyone? I'm quite smart, but I make average-ish grades. I live with a divorced mom and my younger sister, and I see my dad about five times a month on average. I consider...

myself to be alittle different from my peers, but I embrace that instead of letting it bother me. I'm a virgin, I'm single, and I have never been in love. Last but not least, I want a baby. I don't neccesarily want to have sex with anyone, sex being something I'm not ready for AT ALL, but I really want my baby. I want someone to love deeply and unconditionally. I want someone who I can tend to and take care of. I want my flesh and blood baby. Mine, 100%. I want to be there for my baby, and give my baby everything, the perfect life I wish that I could have. I want to go through those intimate 9 months, knowing I'm giving life to something. But, I'm not stupid. I know there is no way I can have a baby in my sophmore year of highschool. I know how difficult, costly and time consuming it is. I know that I could never be so selfish as to have a baby now, but that dosn't stop the want, the need that I feel, that grows every day. I've already named my baby. I've already done all the reaserch I can do on birthing and caring for a baby. I see kids and there moms everywhere, and I want, NEED, that bond with my child. I dream about my baby nightly. I long so much for her, or him. I've talked to some friends, but they just don't get it. I know this is a lot of information and all, but I'm hoping there will be someone who reads this and can relate.

kitty Answered by ty on Oct 10, 2008, 06:07PM
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The want for unconditional love? (or theoretically unconditonal love) a lot of people can relate...
I'm glad you realize it would be selfish to have a baby at this age though... for the baby's sake I'm glad you realize you should wait...
You will have a baby... when you're old enough to financially take care of it and provide a good, stable home...
Dont worry so much now, you'll get there when the time is right!

Comment for marissaslater17's profile Answered by theegodfather on Oct 10, 2008, 06:18PM
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ok your an idiot.seriously. your 15 and not ready emotionally, physically, or mentally ready for a baby.
1. your not ready to have sex your too young
2. no guy at 15 is goint o help you with this child. hell do you then ditch you.
3. this will put too much strain on your family.
4. your going to ruin this childs life
think this over. talk to your mom, teachers, doctor

Me & my hubby Answered by colethky on Oct 10, 2008, 07:09PM
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theegodfather, she already said that she realizes that she's too young, must you be ignorant?

I'm glad that you realize what it would take to have a baby now, there are too many girls out there that have no idea and then end up pregnant and unprepared.

Wait...when you're a little older it will be the right time. You'll be able to give your child everything that you want to...you'll be able to devote yourself to that child. Right now you need to focus on you. Get a good education, get a stable life that way your baby has what you don't. Look forward to the future, there is nothing wrong with that.

Good luck best wishes.

Me Jumping!!! Answered by summerhottie2424 on Oct 10, 2008, 07:18PM
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I no that at this age you get this kind of feeling but sometimes your emotions will play with you but you have to stay strong trust me you will not like it I have a friend do that 9well she isnt my friend anymore but at that time she was) and he hated it she ended up giving it up and I no your staying that wont happen to you but you will get the wrong idea
so please wait until your ready

Answered by y2jericho on Oct 11, 2008, 06:31AM
34 answers

Yeah, evry one here suggesting is 100% right.Dont do that until you have not reached your age.I also suggest you not to have a baby right now. please BE PATIENCE.

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