I am 13, every says i am goodlooking and all that, i just dnt know

everytime i see a hot girl, i feel like i am a loser and ai am ugly its weird, i have only had 5 gf's in my whole life, i just want to no wat i might be able to do to get my confidence up and how to get girls??

you know what... I am 14 and every friend of mine say i am pretty but one thing i don't understand is that is i am pretty why dont i have a girlfriend. I have confidence but my deal is i don't have a boyfriend. If you are a shy type and you are crushing in a shy girl well you schould be the one telling her how you feel. If you want a girlfriend try not to act like an asshole and be yourself arou8nd them and show them a good time... Good Luck!

you know what... I am 14 and every friend of mine say i am pretty butone thing i don't understand is that is i am pretty why dont i have a BOYfriend. I have confidence but my deal is i don't have a boyfriend.If you are a shy type and you are crushing in a shy girl well you should be the one telling her how you feel. If you want a girlfriend try not to act like an asshole and be yourself around them and show them a good time... Good Luck!

you know what... I am 14 and every friend of mine say i am pretty butone thing i don't understand is that is i am pretty why dont i have a BOYfriend. I have confidence but my deal is i don't have a boyfriend.If you are a shy type and you are crushing in a shy girl well you should be the one telling her how you feel. If you want a girlfriend try not to act like an asshole and be yourself around them and show them a good time... Good Luck!

you know what... I am 14 and every friend of mine say i am pretty butone thing i don't understand is that is i am pretty why dont i have a BOYfriend. I have confidence but my deal is i don't have a boyfriend.If you are a shy type and you are crushing in a shy girl well you should be the one telling her how you feel. If you want a girlfriend try not to act like an asshole and be yourself around them and show them a good time... Good Luck!

wow, ok, um, ya. Get this, im gonna be a senior in high school, i have only had two girlfriends, one i met in eight grade and dumped, and another that i met as a freshman and am still with, maybe its not the problem if girls like u or not, but having 5 gfs before even hitting high school?! thats ridiculous. U just need to calm down, and stop dating so much cuz i bet some girls dont wanna date some one with a reputation for dating and dumping, u should only go out with someone if u really truly like them.

Take this from an older woman. It's worth what you paid for it, nothing. But I will say this, I am married to my High School sweetheart and have been for 14 years now. He and I met when he was 14 and I was 13, we were candystrippers doing volunteer work at the local hospital together and we met at their pool party. Geeky I know. Anyway, my advice is this: 1) NEVER date anybody unless it is somebody you would consider marriage to them. That's what dating is, an interview for a potential life parter. Think about that for a minute and it will make sense. 2) SLOW DOWN!!!! You're too impatient. As a woman I can tell you that the guys that drooled all over me (I was a hottie in my day so there were plenty), scored a big fat zero. It's the one that glanced at me from across the room, smiled maybe or gave me their name but then ignored me that got my attention. There's something about a man that won't notice you that annoys the heck out of a woman. I guess it's a vanity thing. She'll eventually fall over you just to make sure she's pretty enough to be noticed by you. and lastly 3) If you don't like yourself, why do you expect her to? You are your own best or worst salesman. If you were a car and you were going to sell yourself to somebody else, how would you do it? Aw, I'm ugly and nobody wants to go out with me? Yeah, that's a real chick magnet line if I ever heard one. NOT!!! Don't lie either, girls can see through the crap and then they'll think you're a geek for sure. Just remember that she's so busy wondering what you think of her and nervous about thigh spread and her hair and makeup to even worry about your zit on your nose or if you have designer jeans or not. I just thought I'd pop on here to see what the teens were talking about. My oldest will be 14 this next week and he's hitting all this stuff too. I like to be the cool mom and listen to My Chemical Romance, The Used, Coheed and Cambria, etc. and so thought I'd better start getting a feel for the teen dating sceen. Good luck to you and hang in there. You have more than a few more years of puberty to go! haha!!

I'm a 14 year old girl. You should never feel like a loser. Because your not. If you want to get a girl just be yourself and the right girl will come along. Please don't try to change yourself for someone else. Only having 5 gf's for a 13 yr old is perfectly normal. If you want to build your confidence then just try talking to those hot girls. If they like you and you get along with them you probably won't feel like a loser. Good Luck!

like u could get girls by being nice lik impressing them and stuff... still... 5 gf's is still a lot! =]

The only way to get confidence is talking to the ugly girls, then work your way up slowly all it is is confidence. Im 14 i used to be like you but trust me, I'm way past that now.

same problem dude
but then again
i cant even speak right around chicks i really like

i dont believe you need to slow down all those people above me are f*cking stupid. we are curios we like to be close to people hell i just finnished middle school i went to a catholic school and ive still had about 20 girlfreinds. wat you need to do is listen. girls love it when they say something and then you bring it up in a conversation cause they know your listening. and laugh at all their jokes. if you say she stupid or even hint at it she will most likely not go out with you. and dont think your right about everything. infact girls love it when you think they're right all the time.never contradict them and never get in an argument. in fact dont treat them lower than you or equal to you treat them as if they were the last girl on earth. hope this helped =)3 nick

5 girlfriends, and your only 13?
im 14, and I've only had 2 boyfriends.

3 extra girlfriend's should tell you something...

if you're 13 then having 5 girlfriends in ya life isnt bad.thats great,but I am a good looking girl.and I have the trance versa problem.people get mad because I look good.

Chances are they do, but might be shy. I am 13 too, but I've only had four boyfriends. Technically, I felt like I was in love twice. Once with this guy Josh, and once with this guy Brock. But it's okay, you'll get more girlfriends, give it time.

well let me tell you something I'm 13 but I've never dated anyone because I'm focusing on studying.U should do the same thing too.Once your a junior or senior get back at dating.Don't date hot girls because they're going to dump you and u'll feel worst.Just go solo 4 a while.your actually a little too young to be dating.just like moi.try to focus on something else.good luck!!!
P.S.-want to b friends?

your thirteen and have only had FIVE girlfriends in your WHOLE life!! Probably because you haven't even had a life yet, no offence. I'm 16 and have had one boyfriend and I hope that never changes.