I am 13 and i want a baby!

All I want in the world is a baby. I want one more than air. I know the daddy will stay with me and help care for it. But so many people say I shouldn't. I wanna know what you think. Should I go ahead and try to have a baby even though I am 13?

Honest...

Opinion?

If you have a baby at 13 because it's all you want in the world, then you are a selfish b*tch. You are only thinking about yourself, not the baby you want to bring into the world. How are you going to support it? You can't get a job. What are you going to do, Go on a single parent pension and have tax payers support your child for 18 years because 'It's all you want in the world'. Why should others have to pay for your selfish descision? What kind of childhood will the child have? What do you even know about raising a child? You probably think you know everything because you are 13 and 13 year olds know everything... Look you don't have a baby because it's all you want in the world, you have a baby when you are in love, in a stable position to provide for one and want to give the child everything in the world, not yourself. You have a lot of growing up to do. Think of it this way... If you have this child now, and your child follows in your footsteps... You'll be a Grandmother at 26... GO GRANDMA!!!

Grow up first, and then have a baby. I believe all babies should be removed from the parents if the parents are under the age of 18.

NOOO
Im Telling You This Now
I Was 14 When I Had My 1st Baby And I Love My Baby Girl But I Cant Go To School To Get A edducation And I Cant GO OUt With My Friends And My Boyfriend Doesnt Help Out With Her And Im Broke!! Dont Do It Trust Me... Ull Regret It!!! Pleaseee Write Back Please Write Back

ok girl
I am not trying to come off as a rood person or any thing buttt...
you are only 13 you dont know what love is
and the boy he will not stay with you tust me ... you will fall in love 1324372838645 times befor you actualy find the write guy
I you have a kid now think about yor futer and the kids futer ... # 1 what will happen in school ??? wha will othr pplk think of you???
and look I work in a gym and a OB/GYN office if you dot know what that id then it id a female doctor's offce where people go hen they are pregnant and they have lower female part problems ... we have so many girls that get pregnant at 14 and around that age and allot of them eiher get a obortion wich pll dont do that if you get a kid ad allot of them loos the baby couse they are so young and lil hat their belly aint big enough to hold the baby
but please think aobut what I said and write back I am going to add you and please please
please write me back and tell me your decicion
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having a baby is BIG responsibility...I have a dog and he is a very BIG responsibility...I sometimes regret having this dog...but its too late now...imagine a baby!!!

No
Dont Do That Trust Me
I Had My Baby Girl At Age 14, And I Love Her To Death But I Cant Go To School Or Hang Out With My Friends Or Shopping And My Baby Girl Father Wont Help With Her And Im Flat Broke. I Feel So Bad because I Cant Afford To Give Everthing I Want To My Baby Girl because I Was To Stubern To Wait Untill I Was Outta school ANd Had A Job.
Dont Do It

no babies are more responsibility than you can handle and there is no way in hell the kid's father would stay with you for one he'll want to live the life of a kid not of a father and he doesn't have the means to be a father wait until you're married and you need to think about what is gonna be best for a baby and it's not you I am sorry you don't realize this and it's not best for you either you need an education not a baby

hi

I am 19 years old. I have 17 friends of mine who are all pregnant (accidentally).
I have also been through many relationships where I have felt that , that person would be there forever through anything. I also have 2 younger brothers and sisters they are two sets of twins and an 8 year old sister.. the younger ones are ages 1 and 2.

your 13-do you work is the first question? if you feel you have the possibility to be able to care for a child mentally, physically thats great. but there is sooo much more then JUST caring that you need to consider. I am 19 and trying to move out, have saved a lot of money for myself to be able to go away and move out, and am JUST making it by. I work long hours and I go to school. trying to think about balancing all that WITH ONE of my younger brothers or sisters in my entire and total care exhausts me to no end.

in my case, if I needed to I could drop out of college. in YOUR case-you are 13 and are in your peek year of highschool. I promise you, if you dont get that highschool diploma, you wont go ANYWHERE .. highschool is everything.

also, you would miss out on a lot of things that are essential for you to have while still growing up into a young woman. things like graduations, parties, dances, sleepovers, things like prom, things like hanging out with girl/guy friends, and learning your resposibilities as they are presented to you, rather then rushing the whole situation, rather then rushing your life and trying to make growing up come faster then it should.

I remember being 13, I remember being in your shoes (not with the baby situation) but thinking that because I was FINALLY in the teen category that I should be given more freedoms, and more responsibities ( I wanted more dependability). I lived in toronto at the time and I asked my mom to go to a movie one night with friends and she wouldnt let me. I screamed at her that I hated her ...just because of that. I look back now and laugh. I wasnt old enough to do those things yet.

you need to let life come to you let your life live itself, dont try and rush things. I know what its like to be someone who takes care of young ones... WITH SOMEONE ELSE at the same time.. and its not fun all the time.. you honestly crave sleep and any time to rest 24 hours a day 7 days a week. you wont sleep at night, and at this age, it wont be fun .. I can promise you that.

goodluck with whatever you choose.

no you dont im 13 as well.
and the funn is just now starting
I mean going to the mall movies parties teen clubs
sneakin out!!! you cant do all that wit a baby...
I mean there cute butt dont you wanna have fun while you can and enjoy life!!!
id say WAIT till your older and married...
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE WAIT and ima add you as a friend...
and PLEASE tell me what you decide...

HECK NOOO!!!

my sister's friends 24 pregnant, and regrettinggg it.

do not do not do nottt dooo ittt!!!

I just think that you would be making a huge mistake. Im 20, and looking back on my early teenage years, I could remember what it was like to 'be in love'. at 13 its hard to understand what love is. having a baby at such young age as yours is crazy. there are so many responsbilities, and its so expensive. did you know it costs an average of $10,000 to support a child for the first year of its life. at 13, where are you going to come up with such money. at 13 you should be worrying about you, and what your going to war tomorrow, not whether or not to have a child. Best of luck with whatever you choose.

the best thing to do is volenteer at a orphanige,or somthing.if you lose your virginity at thirteen,im pretty sure your life will be ruined.just think about it.do you want a baby now?if you have one,you'll have to take care of it all the time,while your friends will be having fun(that is IF you have friends.because,if you look at it,who would want to be friends with a thirteenyear old mother?you could babysit,or ask your parents to adopt a baby(although,may be unlikely)but think it through.do you want to be known as the 13 year old mother,or the trashiest 13 year old?

You only like the idea of having a baby. Honestly in reality..you dont want to have a baby at 13 years old. You are still a baby yourself. You have a lot of growing up to do.
Having a baby is not as glamours as the world make it seem. Its a lot of work.!
You are taking care of a person. Say goodbye to having fun, no more social life, no more doing what you want when you want.

You have a kid to care for..! How are you going to do that? Government help? That solves everything! Not!
You cant drive, you cant get a job, you are still in middle school. The father wont stick around!

It would be so selfish of you to have a child at 13!

You need to stop and think about what could happen! You are still so young, and have a lot to experience.

having a baby is waaay harder than it seems. really, I grew up raising kids, I've never been pregnant but I've practically raised my little cousins. think about it- getting up late at night just to feed them,---during a school night!--- I've done it alll. it sucks buttt. and changing their diapers bathing them carrying them everywhere with you. I was practically a mom to my little cousin. and I dont like the idea of being a mother. I dont think im ever going to have kids. but honestly maybe you should just try to get one of those babies who you have to pretend feed and change and stuff.

dont do it no offence but that would be just selfish and immature wait till your grown up and people will think bad stuff of you not only that you would be selfish to evry one who loves,cares for you and you cant support the baby the boy will just run off or lie

kids shouldn't have kids.

plus your body isn't ready for birth. (my one friend said it like this - just because you bleed doesn't mean you are ready to breed - pardon the crude language)

Are you really emotionally ready for all the pain you'll have to experience during birth and all the bleeding and other stuff afterwords - like bleeding for 6 weeks and having a messed up body for a while?

what about having to take care of the child. I mean I'm sure you don't have a job or and EDUCATION for that matter. (both is necessary before you have a child - after all you want your child to grow up into a competent adult, which isn't likely to happen if you're still a child yourself.)

Also don't you have any future DREAMS or ASPIRATIONS...except for getting knocked up and being just ANOTHER teen pregnancy? How about a career?

oh and imagine all the nice looks you'll be getting. plus you'll be labeled.

I think what you need is a shrink, rather then a child. You're obviously missing something in your life...maybe not enough love from your parents? Abandonment...something traumatic must have happened in order for you to think that having a child is going to fulfill your emotional needs.

NONONONONONONONO... you DONT HAVE ANY EXPIRIENCE AND your MAKING A BIG MISTAKE. you WUD have TO LOSE SOO MUCH

not to be mean but no teen ager needs a baby. im 23 with 3 kids and my oldest is 6. I was 17 when I had him and sometimes I really wish I would have waited till I was older. I never got to finish school, my friend stopped hanging out with me because I was boring and could go out,and I left my babys dad because he was a dead beat, although I found a great man who takes care of my son but I had 2 kids with him too. its not all it cracked up to be, dont get me wrong I love my kids but I should have waited. take everyones good advice and WAIT. it will be worth it to have a child hood because your still a baby yourself. and you cant even get a job yet how you going to take care of it?

Listen, I'm 15 I watch my 4month old baby sister every night while my mom works third shift I get NO sleep at all its such a handful you have nooo fxcking idea. It takes soo much patience, it takes soo much out of you its the biggest responsibility I've ever had. So don't sit here and say you want a baby at 13! And don't say the dad will stick around because guess what?! My mom had me and my twin brother at 15 years old she didnt even get to START high school ! She works at walmart now as a stocker! you no what the guy did! He fxcking left my mom as soon as he found out she was pregnant with my brother and I and he was about 20somethin years old! If a 20yr old guy can't handle a baby and isn't mature of responsible enough what makes you think yer little boyfriend will stick around?! It pisses me off when I read this question because you have no fxcking idea what having a baby really means.

hell 2 the fck no you dont need a bby at 13 wate till like 25 or sume sht dame and if a bby is all you want in this would you have some problems okay hun live your life you only have one 2 live and your a teen so live life like one dont grow up 2 fast and sure in the hell dont have a bby at 13..

wow kid, your life is gunna change.

ok first of all you dont know if the baby dad going to want to be with you or not and if he love you he would let you wait then marry you and be a young mom is hard just to let you know I have a one year old and I had him when I was 15 one time that all it took I thought I was in love but I knew I wasnt after we did that.when you have a baby no more party and morehaving fun only if you want to bring your child every where you go...but I love ma son but it was hard...so just think about it really really really HARD okay and make sure he really love you and you love him and if yall love each other yall will wait...