I'm under pressure.

How do you know if you find the right one to have sex with? I have a guy in mind, but I also have another one in mind to...They are both really great guys, but I'm just wondering if there is a specific way to know if they are the right one?...

Man, do I know what you're talking about, and I can't tell you how much I wish there were just some rhyme or rule to knowing who you should "give it up" to. But the hard truth is that there is no such specific way to know, so in my opinion you just have to follow your heart on this one. Just follow your heart, and don't let anyone trick you into feeling something that isn't there. Just remember: be honest with yourself, and you really can't go wrong. Good luck to ya

Thank you so much for replying! You really helped a lot! but, I wish I knew if I were being honest to myself or not.

First of all, I honestly think sex is something you do not plan! It's something that happens. As for finding the right one, it's something you will JUST know. You feel it in your heart...some ways of knowing is that they may be all you think about, you spend 24/7 with them, you feel that love for them. But, then again it's still hard to know, because love can fool you in many ways! Just go with what you feel.

Love Always,
Heather