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How can he break my hymen without pain?

Prom Nite Asked by whit_ron2010 over 2 years ago, 39 answers.

Me and my boyfriend have just recently started having sex. Lately it has been hurting a lot and my boyfriend wants to break my hymen but it does not seem to be working and the pain is killing me! It does it rough and everything trying to break it. What...

is the best way for him to break it without all the pain? Will it hurt after the hymen breaks so much???

hellooooooooo Answered by snowboarder on May 20, 2007, 06:28AM
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Like everyone else has said don't worry so much about your hymen anymore... its already been stretched / torn... now you just have to concentrate on slow sex with lube after a while you will feel better...

regards,
jason

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Looking sexi on the merry go round at the fair! Answered by mustanghotty09 on May 19, 2007, 02:51PM
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This is a stupid question for me to ask but are you sure you know what one looks like and you have one, why do you care to break it so much maybe you dont have one. Your not a virgin anymore if you have had sex

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Answered by angelfire2708 on May 19, 2007, 02:56PM
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Why are you so concerned about breaking your hymen? Youve been having sex, I highly doubt yours is still intact. The hymen may only PARTIALLY separate while growing up through exercise or stretching. It is also possible that through masturbation, tampon use or sexual activities, the hymen may not completely separate, so it is possible that if she engages in vaginal intercourse, this will cause the hymen to separate completely. If you are experiencing pain...it does NOT have anything to do with your hymen. You probably need to be more lubricated!!!

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Answered by miya on May 19, 2007, 03:14PM
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just let it happen on its own!

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black and white Answered by kattie8451 on May 20, 2007, 09:31AM
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i agree with everyone dont worry so much about it and about the pain thing just ask ur bf to go sloweritll hurt less

Answered by sweethang1987 on May 23, 2007, 12:23AM
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when he enters you does it hurt? or when your having sex? 'because normally depending on the size of him, it'll stretch and hurt a little when he first enters you when he's on top. but if you've already had sex then your hymen has already broken unless he's not long enough which I highly doubt. so use lotz of lubricant because if your not wet enough or aren't aroused enough it hurts at first. try that and see how it goes.

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Dec 02, 2007, 02:34PM
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If it hurts, I wouldn't have him try to be rougher. Maybe go to a doctor and get checked out. If he is rough trying to break it, then yes it will definitely hurt and you will probably bleed.

Answered by yorkusif on Feb 16, 2008, 12:07PM

One way to avoid painful sexual intercourse is to have a very hearty and effective fore-play. It opens up the pelvic and releases enough fluid to grease the entire vigina, making penetration less painful and most often, very exciting.

Answered by ombomb on Mar 18, 2008, 07:07PM
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ok its imposible to break your hymen without any pain im sorry but ins the truth. I broke mine myself for the fact I didnt want it hurting durind sex so I looked it up. and found where it was ind broke it myself. good luck on breaking it kuz it hurts a lot and im sayin wantin to scream kind of hurt so good luck you will need it.

Answered by abs124 on Jun 02, 2008, 05:39PM

I have the exact same problem ... Everyone says since she's had a sexual intercourse she does not have a hymen anymore. For my case, he has never been able to enter, ... I think maybe because my hymen is still at least partially there ... What should I do?

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Answered by typing_will on Jun 10, 2008, 12:09AM

I wish I had a better answer for you.

Me and my girlfriend of 4 1/2 years are having the same problem and I can really sympathize with how hard all of this.

I do know that their is a surgery that can be done but at 1500 dollars, it's well outside the price range of two college kids, like us, supporting ourselves.

Planned Parenthood is a good resource to use for some FREE advice. Unfortunately they don't really specialize in helping you to have sex. Planed parenthood are more focused in preventing unwanted pregnancies and helping new parents but despite that they are still all doctors who deal in this sort of thing.

Answered by melsterr on Aug 29, 2008, 12:32PM
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Ride a horse.

Answered by devirginizer on Dec 24, 2008, 11:49PM

test

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Dec 29, 2008, 02:42AM
54203 answers

put some honey,butter or oil to your vagina and try it

Answered by clarabear25 on Jan 05, 2009, 11:22PM
52 answers

Okay just to let you know up front, it depends on the girl. Some girls can break their hymen and not experiance any pain and little or no blood. Some girls are not so fortunat. Also you should know your hymen can be broke as easily as riding a bike or horses to inserting a tampon.

I hoped I helped a little more.

Answered by lajaysia on Mar 19, 2009, 10:01AM
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just ride a bike and you want even think its your hymen that broke like if you hit the seat with your vagina it will be pain but the pain doesnt hurt

DON'T GET IT MISUNDERSTOOD Answered by dajae on Mar 23, 2009, 07:01PM
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TO STRANGE FOR ME I CAN'T STAND PAIN. TAKE TIME OFF FROM SEX RIGHT AND THEN WHEN YOU FEEL BETTER HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR GUY.happy

MCpl Answered by woodsie on Jun 05, 2009, 07:19AM
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Well to break it without pain is going to be a really hard. There are doctors you can go to. I'm not quite sure how much it will cost but someone has to be there so that Dr. Doesn't get charged with sexual assault. There might be another reason why that's happening to you though. Your guy just might be too small and cannot reach your hymen. That's very unlikely but is a possibility

Answered by azaizl on Jun 05, 2009, 10:08AM

there have been some cases in which girls who have had several sexual intercources had an intact Hymen. This condition is also called as elastic hymen. A minor surgical procedure should remove the hymen is such cases as elastic hymens sometimes do cause pain during sexual intercourse.

Answered by boulter105 on Jun 09, 2009, 09:50PM
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when your havin sex, you should go on top so you can control how deep its going and how rough it is, and then maybe it'll hurt less, thats how I lost it and it didnt hurt 2 bad. like someone said before...use lube, and tell him not 2 b so rough with you.

meee Answered by xxtiffiebabixx on Jun 10, 2009, 11:55AM
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I feel so damn stupid asking this but...what exactly is fore-play? someone please msg me and tell me

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