Husband's repeatitious bad habits are making me sick of him.

I am 26 year old, my husband, 25, and I dated for 5 years and married for 1. I'm at the point where I can't stand him. He's hard working at work but lazy when it comes to his life and our marriage. He doesn't listen to me, swears up and down I didn't tell him things when I know I have. He goes to the point where its an argument. If he leaves, he says he'll be an hour and comes back in 4 and acts as if he's done nothing wrong. Once in a while of this action is fine, but he does it a lot. When I ask him questions he doesn't say anything right away. I usaully have to say "Heeelllooo". Then when he does answer its "Because" or "I don't know" The only thing he does answer is that he loves me. His arguements are sooo stupid, he says the dummest things to try to shoot down my argument. He'll bring up the past, he'll bring up things that arent even an issue, he tells me anything just to shut me up, he plays word games where he doesn't lie, he just omits a few things and lets me conclude what I want. And when I comfront him-well technically he didnt say he wasn't going to the club, technically he said an hour or so. "Or so" meant 3, 4, 5 hours to him, common sense me "hour or so" means 2, 2.5 tops. He works 50-56 hours per week on average, he loves me, and only my happiness matters to him, he says he goes out of his way to please me (and I have examples of this) but for the most part its not enough, he's like a big kid, a part-timer when it comes to marriage. He's turning me into a nag. All he wants is food, sleep, and sex. what he likes to do and what I like to do are very different, sooo we barely do anything. When its not boys night out, he'll invite me to the club but its so smokey in there that I'll gag so I dont want to go. We've had our talks, this is a temp. solution, a good two weeks. So he trys. I want to know is there a way to make things better and get our marriage on track before we end up like a statistic or am I just a spoiled brat that should take things as they are because I dont have any major major marriage problems like cheating?

Sounds like you should hire a professional marriage counselor.

As far as I can see from here it is better if you break up.