Husband called me by another name during sex

My husband and I sometimes role play during sex, pretend we just met, pretend we are someone else... Always someone anonymous. Recently he used the name of someone we know. The first time I sort of ignored it but then he did it again and again, the same persons name! I am not generally jealous and I really trust my husband but the last time it just freaked me out and I got mad at him. He said he didn't realize that he was using the same name also this is something we usually only do once or twice a month and he called me by her name 4 times in about 1 1/2 weeks. I tried not to make a big deal out of it but it is still bothering me. This is someone he denies even being attracted to. How do I get over this without making a huge issue out of it.

well first off, it's a a very great thing to roleplay durring sex, dont get me wrong but maybe he just got sick of the same name and wanted to say another and maybe he got attached to the name, sounds wierd I know but I think you should just sit him down and talk to him about it, maybe it's just your imagionation, but maybe he's jealous of the name(s) you say, if it happens again.. then you need to tell him off.

I think we all have our fantasy people in our head when making love sometimes, and when your hubby say's he's not attracted to that person who he named..I think he's to embarrassed to say he is....just like you would be to embarrassed to say the one you "always" think about...right?...the only difference is...he actually slipped up and said it out loud (Men?!) and you didn't...so don't worry...we are all in the same boat including your hubby....just keep on having fun together, maybe just remind him wittingly to try and not say it out loud, keep it in his head (where fantasies actually do happen)..That's my advice!

Experienced Woman

hello?
he is 99% cheating on you.
sue him and get some money out of it.
sory 4 breaking it to you harsh but the only reason why he is dooing it is because he knows he can get away w/ it on you.