Hurting

ok me and jamie are broke up again, I live with him again. and he said the reason he broke up with me is because I was still the same me before I left. he means im not open enough, sexually thoughtfully, like tellin him whats on my mind. so hes been cheatin on his g/f for like 2 weeks but we arent together we just fool around, I recently gave him head for the 1st time and I have dont numerous time and I make out with him now and I even get on top every now and then. but he still wont come back to me. last night when we were bout to go to sleep he goes failed another test. so basically any thing I do hes not happy enough im just being strung along. he says he knows he hurtin me but doesnt want to hurt the girl hes with and it kills me when he goes off with her. its like we get along and then he just up and leaves me. he said he loves me a lot then why is it so hard for him to come back to me. am I stupid for keep trying to get him back someone help me please or for further convo im me at nvofeasrn on yahoo im rally comfuzed help me please

Hes getting what he wants from you already. An ex with benefits! He obviously cares for the girl hes with (just for the fact he doesnt want to leave her)(hes slime for cheating on his girlfriend) Hes just using you for the sex. Thats not a way to get and keep a guy. Guys dont respect girls that are easy. They will take advantage of whatever she gives him! Guys can throw the 'love' word around pretty easily without having any meaning behind it. Hes just taking you for a ride hun! Why would you even want to be with a guy like that??

you have no buisness being with a guy that would do that....leave or just stop doing what you are doing with him and see how he reacts or if he misses what your doing?

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