How to start being able to trust again?

I just came out of a 4 year relationship where there was no trust. I finally broke up with him a few weeks ago and then found out he cheated on me for a year anyways. I've been lied to and screwed over so much that im afraid of relationships now. I met a really nice guy who likes me a lot and wants to be with me. but im already starting to push him away because im so afraid that he will f*** me over. instead of seeing the good I always see the bad side of people. any advice for me?? I even dont trust my closest friends. they havent given me a reason not to but I cant help it. I constantly feel like everyone is out to get me and I cant take it anymore.

Tell him you like him too and tell him about your last relationship. Tell him you want to take it slow. BUILD the trust. With my relationship we can tell eachother any thing. But we always work it out in a conflict. So I'll tell you again TAKE IT SLOW. BUILD THE TRUST. That is what a relationship is about. Have fun and take it slow. fun mail me if you need to.
byes =)