How do you pop your cherry?

I am a virgin and I want to lose it with my boyfriend. But he has tried but it hurts too much so we stop. What should I do?

Every hymen is different... it may take time... he must go slow... and use lube like sakuraxbloomer said... and in some cases the hymen may need corrective surgery if it is closed to much. If you take a look at this page, you can see all the different types of hymens... there is no explicit pictures (no real images) on this page... http://www.healthyst...

Jason

use/ buy lubicants they sell in drugstores, that may help

Well my first time it did not hurt, but if he goes slow, it should hurt for 15mins after and it might hurt more the day after, but its not that bad.... just wait til you have childern... or like me I have horriftic period pains so I guess it does not measure up ?

well tell him to go slow and my friend said that if he fingers you first it will losen you up a lil so it might take sum of the oani away

that happened to me the first time too, so dont worry about it. The best thing to do is leave the sex for a little bit and get you boyfriend to penetrate you with his fingers. Firstly using 1 finger then buiding up until you begin to feel comfortable wit 2 or 3 fingers. After you boyfriend has done that a couple of times you will soon become looser and easier for him to enter you. Also another way to make it easier is to ensure that you are wet become your boyfriend inserting himself inside you. this should help. It did for me x

I was wondering I mas*urba*e with a shower head, and the water shoots right where I pee. Can I pop my cherry like that ?

you should try again it is always better the second time but if it still hurts you should master bate a little cause then you will be used to having things in your vagina ok and dont forget ask your boyfriend to buy condoms cause you are aloud to in stores these days or you can use a dildo but I think you should use you fingers start with one though