How to make her understand?

I love my mom. I really do, but there are times where I want to yell at my mom and tell her I hate her. I know im not suppose to really hate my mom, but sometimes that how I feel. Shes controlling my life! Shes making it hard on me cause sometimes It...

make me feel like running away or do drugs, stuff like that. What should I do? I dont want to hurt my mom. I just want her to understand that im tried of her fussing at me and stuff. To understand that I love hanging out w/ bad influencing friends and I love being me. How?

She's just trying to protect you, I don't blame her. Someday you'll understand and thank her for it. You should be thankful you have a mother that cares about you because a lot of kids in this world have nobody to look out for them, consider yourself lucky. You might feel trapped right now but things will change as you get older and mature.

yea srry I hate to say it kiddo but stephanief987 is rite..but I get watt you mean moms can be so annoying but they mean the best but someday when your older and all your friends are dead preganant or in jail..ul be thankfull that your mother protected u..

(abc klc)

I agree with them

But you dont get the point. im thankful and all of my mother, but she just gets on my nerve. I mean, I actually cut myself. I know im not suppose to, but I be so mad at her. I just hate my life so much!

Talk to her, tell her you need your space and to just leave you alone when you're mad. She was once a teenager and she knows what it's like so have an adult conversation with her about how you feel. Figure out *why* you hate your life and fix things a little bit at a time.

Consider: If a dog lays down with fleas...it will get fleas - bad rubs off also, you are not immune - your Mom obviously is trying to look after your best interests - she Love you and CARES - many, many, don't - be Thankful - won't always be around.

sit down talk to her and maybey she will lay off you. JUST A LITTLE BIT! shes your mother and she loves you. try to make a compromise with her

But im afraid that she will hate me if I told her the things I do to myself.

dude there's more to life than just
that I mean I beat people have it worse
then you do
suck it up buttercup
that's what my friends
tell me xD

but you know I wish my mom would give me more
attion and I only have one parent
so your lucky

 
Ana,

 
You are at an age where hormones, emotions and even your brain are undergoing strong changes. It is natural to occasionally feel confused or depressed or even to think you hate your mom. In reality, you don't hate her just what she does.

If you are cutting then you do need help.

The best thing you can do is to talk to a counselor or therapist. Barring that, find someone you can communicate your emotions and thoughts with, sort of like a sounding board. Keeping your thoughts to yourself doesn't help. If you can't find someone around you then consider Fun Mailing someone on Fun Advice whose advice you like. It's relatively private and gives you a good sounding board.

 
Information on self injury:

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm

 
Cutting?

I just wanted to say that I hope you will look into ways to stop torturing yourself. If you want to talk to some people who care, please check out the links below:

If you are having problems, below are a couple of sites that may help you if you are having problems or are depressed:

Check out the Befrienders link below. They are not only a suicide hotline but also offer help to people who are stressed or are in a state of depression.

http://www.befrienders.org/support/helplines.asp

Boys Town National Hotline

Call With Any Problem, Any Time

1-800-448-3000

http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.asp

Along with the above information, I'd seriously consider talking WITH your mom about it and about your thoughts and feelings. It is easy for you and she to believe that you both live in different worlds, but she is your mom and she loves you. I think she would be glad for you to trust her enough to be able to come to her. Just do it at a time when everything and everyone is calm.
 

        Simply a Rose to brighten your day,
        And maybe lessen the cares in your way;
        And also, too, to help you to know,
        That in knowing you, many others grow!

...why are you even cutting? Are you really that in need of attention?

PLEASE message me telling me exactly hoe she makes you made