How to kiss my girlfriend for the first time?

ok, I'm a 16 year old dude and I recently (nearly 3 weeks ago) got a 13-year-old girlfriend. I have had a few girlfriends before but haven't lasted together longer than a week or so with each one of them. But this time I'm sure that I want a serious relationship, but, I don't know about her... so far all we've been doing is just hugging and nothing else and I feel like it's time to make the next move to kiss her (I DONT MEAN TO MAKE OUT!) just kiss. SO I want to know HOW to approach her before I kiss her and if she's really ready for it because, as I said before, she's 3 years younger than me and we've only been going out for less than 3 weeks... please HELP!

aww that's so sweet. ok what you need to do is ask her if your ncertain of how she's going to react. and before you ask her start a romantic conversation with her like talking about your future love life and what you would like a and ot like.
good luck

I know what you mean I was in the same place.
spend the night together and when you or her are leaving, stand up with her, lean in a little more than half way to go and kiss her.
if she moves toward you, go for it
if not, just whisper bye and turn and leave
good way to try and not feel rejected or embarassed

If you two would happen to be sitting next together (like watching a movie together) then it would be very cute to catch her eye, then gently use her chin to tilt her head back and kiss her... then you could judt hold her in your arms, and it would all just be quite adorable and romantic

ok thanks guys! by the way - I'm the one that wrote this so yea thanks anyway and more advice please thanks people

shirley gave good advice. you know how in movies when theyre sitting on a dark poorch swing just talking about nothing but that nothing means everything? talk about something youre both comfortable with. dont ask her if she likes you. just ask her if she'd be comfortable if you kissed her. kind of like permission. she might want to but feel like holding back because of the age difference but reassure her that its ok and that she can trust you. then take control but make sure you pay attention to her and signs. the first time I kissed was when I was 13 and I kissed a 15 yr old guy and he was controling so I just followed but when I was ready to stop he wouldnt stop. if she pulls away pay attention and dont go back after her like a dog wanting his bone back...

shes probably a little scared but just take things slow find out how comfortable she is and do little things like hold her and kiss her forehead or cheek and just little things like that throughout the night then if you know shes comfortable enough give her a goodbye kiss on her lips. you should be able to tell if shes uncomfortable with things by the way she reacts when you kiss her other places on her face.

I always thought that asking her was the worst thing you could do?

okay just start by kissing her on her cheek and then gradually get closer 2 her mouth like evry 3 days or so and then finally 1 day when she least expects it just kiss her gently not rought either.