How to help her?

so I have someone who I really care about ,she is my relative and she is madly in love with this guy, and its very obvious that he doesn't love her, but still in arelation with her cause he knows that she loves him so much,so he is only spending time...

with her ,and on the other side he is cheating on her with her best friends, and finally I knew that they are having sex, and she is still young and virgin and iam worried about her, I don't want her to do something that she will regret about it later , cause clearly he is not the one, the real problem is that she knows that he is cheating on her and she still can't breakup cause she loves him,what can I do to help her??please help

obviously, this girl is in denial, and for some reason clings to guys who are no good for her. you need to confront her and tell her that this is wrong and why would she pain herself over a guy that isnt worth it! then, I would talk to this guy and tell him to back the hell off her. he is only making it worse by staying with her.

In the life there are asymmetric relationships. I think it is enough to tell her your opinion and the details of the situtation. And she will make her own decision. At least she will learn a lot about boys and relationships. Baybe you do not bealive it, but somebody can be happy even in this asymmetric relationship. She is virgin, she does not need s*x, so she just does not mind that if the boy makes it with others. Even, she can look up to him because of this.

Ok, it is like this...this is not the last time that you will have to face a sitaution such as this. best friend is doing something that you don't approve of, and you want to do all that you can to help her. But in relationships with friends, the only thing that you can do is support your friend in whatever they do. Now don't get me wrong, this doesn't mean that you have to like it, but if you wish to continue to be friends with her, you what to let her do her own thing, and find out things for herself. Like you will have to. I'm sure there has or will be a time in your life when you do things that others don't approve of no matter how you feel about them. That is just life. But if you want to keep this girl as your friend, then you are going to have to not make her relationship, no matter how bad it gets, your relationship. You will be beating yourself in the head wondering why, how, what the hell, ect.
For example, a woman loves a man that beats her. No matter what her family says or what her friends do, she runs back to that man every time. And it gets so bad that the family and friends can deal anymore and so they begin to pull away from her, because she is not trying to help herself.
Not everyone in this world feels the same way about things, and sometimes others will deal with things that you or the next person may not deal with.

You need to trust your friend for these reasons...
1. she will hopefully learn to make better choices in her realionships, and not be so stuck down by the tunnel of love for anything.
2. She will also come to you again or in the future when it comes time for your help. She will remember just what kind of friend she has, and she will trust you more if you just let her do her own thing. And stay out of it no matter what, because you already know she is still going to do her.
3. And there is a third reason but I can't think of it now.LOL

So continue to be a friend to her, and if you feel that you can't handle the situation any longer, then you may need to spend some time apart for a while.

Just because you care about someone doesn't mean that they take what you say to heart. Be a friend that listens when she needed you to listen, and stop trying to get her to change. She will do that in her own time if she feels like she needs to.

Listen to her, but don't judge her choices.
Hope this helped.

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