How do you have sex?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 months. He has asked me to give him head but I told him no. But I feel like if I'm ready to have sex with him and I want to but I don't know how to start. I mean is it true you bleed when you first have sex? And how do you know if your pussy is tight!! I need help!!!

Yes, you will definitely be tight, the tightest ever your first time. For your first time, try to take it really slowly, make sure yyou're really horny, and make sure you tell him to enter you VERY slowly. Hopefully he's the kind of guy who will spend an hour or more just making out with you and making sure your comfortable and horny. Horny=wet=less painful. It will hurt, but the next time it will feel better, you wont be as scared, you'll be more comfortable with the idea and it should be more pleasurable. Be safe and Good luck.
As a side note, I've read that the first three months in anny relationship is considered the "honeymmoon phase", that you really cant get to know someone intimately until their true side comes out and the novelty of the new relationship wears off. If you've only been together for two months, Maybe you'd feel better waiting to make sure he's good enough for you. I always try to use the three month rule, and it is amazing how many ppls personalities change after three months (but I usually fail, I'm not that patient in that area) Anyway, thought you'd like to hear about that supposedly proven rule, let us know how everything went. Have fun girl! Scariest and best experience ever!

ok I don't know a lot about sex, but you are probably to young anyway. I mean how old are you?? Son't let him talk you into something you don't want to do!!!!!!!!!!!

It is true that you bleed your first time.,.. well for most people they do,, some dont. or some only bleed a little bit.. If you know that you r ready before you jump right to sex I would have some oral an foreplay going on first.. an then I don't know really how to tell you how to start having sex it just kind of happins when both people are ready an in the mood.. good luck

love always megan

You only have one first time, so think about it long and hard (no pun itended) before you go there. Because there is no going back. It's kind of like before you knew what your favorite food tasted like but in a bigger way. Once you try it nothing and maybe no one else will ever satisfy you again but that pitcular food. What if that foods not good for you, what if it makes you unhealthy, what if you can't have it after a while and what if it's a one time thing or it's not any good once you've had it. I know your bodies telling you that your ready but get your head and heart in the right place too. If not the moment will more than likely be enjoyable but the aftermath that follows could haunt you for the rest of your life. Would he do this for you if the rolls were reversed? Probably not. I mean you usually can't tell when a guy has had sex. But when it's a girl it's a one time thing unless you plan on lying and faking it for the rest of your life with who ever your with. It's presious gift be sure he's worth it. And for Goodness sake please if you decided that this is truly what you want have SAFE SEX!!! Don't be stupid!!!!

I didnt bleed my first time By The Way how old are u? if your young then you need to wait and if you do decide to have sex make sure that you Have safe sex because thats very important and if you havnt had sex then your tight

if she's ready she's ready. please don't preach to her about being too young for sex...

What is with him asking you for oral sex? That is a gift that you choose to give. You give him head, what does he do for you? Is he thinking about your pleasure or his own? He can mas*erba*e easier than you can give him oral. Don't get me wrong, all sex is good when its right. I hear about so many young ladies giving oral to guys that spread the word and then the only time the guy comes around is for another b/j.

If you do decide to have sex. Make sure that your on bottom. My first time, I was on top. And it hurt really bad. I could barley move. I am still with him to this day. And when I have sex with him now and I am on top it still hurts and its already been three years being together. But some gurls bleed and others don't. As for me as much as it hurt I thought I was going to have a lot of blood but I did not bleed once. P.S. Do take it slow.

ok well if you just wanan give head that is differnt then having like v sex. well the first thign is like yah you bleed but some dont some do if your clit hasnet been broken already then it shouldent bleed but if it hasnt then it probably will. also I think that you should take things slow then you should just slowly get to it then affentually start to have sex but I don't know how you know if your vag is tight or not but yes it will hurt for the first time even a bit after but mostly wont hurt nearly as much