How to give the perfect blowjob!!

Asked by jackiemitchell over 5 years ago, 40 answers.

I#039;ve noticed that when I give my boyfriend a blowjob he doesnt cum even though he says he enjoys it. What can I do to make it better for him???

Question closed
flower Answered by zorbot on May 20, 2004, 07:05AM
1536 answers
Advisor-small

Giving the perfect blowjob is tricky business because everyone has different sexual preferences. The main problem is that most people don#039;t tell their partners what they like or don#039;t like. If your boyfriend isn#039;t cumming it#039;s either because he is having a personal problem (I.e. he has a hard time letting himslef relax) in which case you should explore his feelings around the subject with him or because he isn#039;t communicating his sexual desires to you (I.e. he would rather cum while having intercourse or isn#039;t telling you what feels good). Here are some basics to good BJs: have a lot of saliva in your mouth, use your tongue when sucking to stimulate, move up and down, play with it (don#039;t just suck really hard or just go up and down...vary..some even like a bit of teeth), concentrate on the part just bellow the head where the foreskin is attached or where there is a V), use your hands too, stimulate his anus or the area surrounding the area but most important of all, have fun and ask him to tell you what he likes!!!

3 people thought this was helpful
Answered by knowitall on Jun 28, 2004, 05:02PM
14 answers

Lots of spit,cup the balls ,use your hands a lot. If possible go all the way down, you might gag but this is normal.Use your tounge with the tip,dont use the same move over and over again.Dont be looking at him either thats unsettling.Also moan on it so he can feel that vibration.Try making sluping noises (guys like that).If this is too freaky for you dont do it but guys like it when you put their balls in your mouth.Make sure he has SHOWERED before all of this.Start off slow and sensual then gradually speed up .Squeeze the base as you suck(the base is located rigt on top of the balls.)Also you can use you tounge and lick it all around.Take it and hit it against your face firmly.THis act makes my mans toes curl.If this don#039;t bring him to climax nothing will.Good luck. P.S (I've done this on only 1 penis for 3 years.)

13 people thought this was helpful
Answered by lovedoctor08 on Aug 01, 2007, 09:44AM
38 answers

its not dat he doesnt like it enuff to make em nut its prolly cuz u do it for a short amount of time!!! trust me ive done ma ex plenty of times not once did he nut not becuz he didnt like it but becuz sheez its not lyke i can be down der 4evaz!!! nd if ur lookn for em to like it betta use food its much tastier!!! lolz!!! seriously tho start off slow, kiss the head nd suck on it a lil bit but not to hard nd slowly work your way down nd if u do gag which more den likely you will play it off nd lick it from top to bottom!!! nd its kewl if u use your teeth just DONT bite it more like nibble on it!!! gud luck!!!

life Answered by karmen446 on Aug 02, 2007, 11:20AM
73 answers

yea i agree thjats something ushould ask him

Answered by cheekygirl on Aug 14, 2007, 06:52PM
5 answers

this drives my man wild every time you suck upward to the top of the penis keep your mouth around the head of his penis and take the tip of your tounge up and over the top of the penis down to where the foreskin is attached. But the best thing you could do is exsperament and get your boyfriend to let you know what he does and doesn't like, all men like different things.

2 people thought this was helpful
Answered by pepsi on Dec 08, 2007, 08:25AM

Do what ever you want it feels good no matter what. But if you want to know Just ask him How he'd like it done

Answered by maneater on Jan 17, 2008, 02:17AM

I've found that having an icecube in your mouth at the time drives them wild!

1 person thought this was helpful
Answered by uwillikeit on Feb 24, 2008, 11:01AM

I know I have explained to my girl what I like... and it totally works... I told her to more contact with her lips tougne works... it drives me crazy when she goes down as far as she can before she starts gagging and moves her tounge up and down like shes trying to swallow or when she just has the head in her mouth and licks over it and plays with it teasingly...a lot of saliva is good but dont drool all over it and if you want to warm him up with a hand job use lube becuase a dry hand job is cool but only for a second...ohhh and that humming while all the way down is a volcano erupter

i love chocolate Answered by texasaggie2011 on Mar 26, 2008, 10:04AM
5 answers

ugg no dont' bite the end off that's the most sensitive part of the penis!!

1 person thought this was helpful
me Answered by craziiazzjulia on Apr 27, 2008, 11:01AM
3 answers

well guys love it when you suck on the head and start to jerk them off at least the guys I did it to loved it but as some of the other people said all guys are different they like different techniques or maybe he just doesnt like getting his d*ck sucked maybe he justs likes having s*x you will never know until you ask him

0 people thought this was helpful
llnb Answered by britjp on May 02, 2008, 01:13AM
17 answers

deep throght, they go WILD!

3 people thought this was helpful
Answered by darthornx on May 12, 2008, 08:07PM
263 answers

well here is something about him not c*mming...he could just be nervous...

me bein' sexii Answered by stacybaby18 on May 21, 2008, 01:27PM

I found out that my fiance LOVES it when I flick my tongue just inside the hole and move your tongue aroung in circles...he also loves it when I grase my teeth very gentily on the underside of the shaft.

Answered by looyalty on May 27, 2008, 08:30PM
105 answers

well im a guy and im going to tell you what works for me,get a chair place it beside your bed,have him sit in the chair,for some reason my dick protrudes all the way when I sit in a chair,better for me and you,then you get in the bed in doggystyle position,giving him head with your butt inthe air for him to see,use no hands and lots of suliva,just place your hands at his side so you dont fall completely forward,a little moaning and swaying your butt slowly from time to time is good,feels good and has good visual for him,I love it when my lady does it this way try it on your man...peace

me Answered by lilgigi4sho on May 31, 2008, 06:12PM
60 answers

make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use a lot of pressure

love Answered by shawnlver on Jun 02, 2008, 04:17PM
88 answers

realy!?!?! who asks that how to giv the perfect blowjob. Sorry but your an idiot!

0 people thought this was helpful
day dreamz Answered by manda21 on Jul 04, 2008, 12:45AM
112 answers

use flavored lubricant like cherry cheesecake or somthing so her mouth isnt dry and sore and you have somthing flavored to suck on and think of it as a lolipop!

Answered by 19me on Jul 11, 2008, 03:48AM

The perfect blow job: start by gently stroking your hand over his genitalia till he twitches with excitement...give him a slow gentle rub...dribble some saliva on the tip of his penis and slowly lick all the way round his tip slowly making your way further down until you can feel it pushing against the back of your throat then pump up and down speeding up then slowing down shaking your head from side to side then stop...lick it all the way down and give his balls a good seeing to... that shud make him squirt!!!

Answered by chaos16 on Jul 13, 2008, 12:19AM
48 answers

Ok first relax make sure your ready. You want to rest your vagina on his knee so he can feel your warmth. Start kissing him, from his lips down adding a view lick down the chest, to the penis. Ok here we go happy start by licking around it. Imagine its a lolipop and explore it. Go as to put it in your mouth suck, be gently then really just pretend to have sex with your mouth. Put it in and out soo your sucking is harded. Everything you do tho make sure he likes. Rub your body(breast) up on him . Moan let him know he is your and you love his body. Let him pull your hair and at all times relaxhappy
Good lucky ladies

Answered by potato on Jul 15, 2008, 09:27PM

he prob should have told you but like 60% of all guys dont c*m from a bj just because they have 2 b in control of there own orgasm. If you really want to try let him fk your throut it'll hurt and u'll prob gag but its surfire way

Ask a question related to: "how to give the perfect blowjob!!"

Title: Give your question a title

Ask your Question: HTML is not allowed.

Category: Choose a category


Our members said the answers on this page also answer the following questions:


Perfect blowjob, How to give the perfect blow job, Perfect blow job, The perfect blowjob, How to give the perfect blowjob, The perfect blow job, How to give a perfect blowjob, How to give a perfect blow job, How to give the perfect bj, How to give perfect blowjob, Perfect blowjobs, Giving the perfect blow job, Giving the perfect blowjob, Perfect bj, How does a blowjob feel, The perfect bj