How to give the perfect blowjob!!

I#039;ve noticed that when I give my boyfriend a blowjob he doesnt cum even though he says he enjoys it. What can I do to make it better for him???

ok besides moving your mouth try moving your tongue to, and while your giving your boyfriend a bj move your hand up down while moving your mouth see if that helps, you can jerk him off really fast to make your man cum

1. make sure he is clean.
2. get him turned on. you'll have to figure out how to do this. guys get turned on in a thousand different ways. sex should be fun and adventurous. try something a little new each time to keep him interested. lots of websites on this. try kissing him on the inside of his thighs and his balls. or even just nuzzling his penis and licking it spontaneously. practice makes perfect! the more aroused he is before you actually put your mouth on him, the faster he will climax.
3. don't talk while you are going down on him unless he asks you to. many guys seem to say they like it when you hum or moan while he is in your mouth.
4. lick his penis from the base (right where the shaft meets the balls) to the head. keep that saliva going or have some yummy lube handy and use your hand along with your lips to keep a fluid motion.
5. don't stop unless he asks you to.
6. LOVE what you are doing. get into it. explore him with your tongue. it's ok to be shameless here.
7. if he doesn't grab your head and help out or seem interested, switch to something else. either he has a mental block about climaxing in your mouth, or he prefers another form of sex. many men prefer vaginal intercourse, anal sex or masturbation over oral sex.
8. if you are still concerned about getting to the bottom of this the best thing to do is tell him after that you want him to love what you are doing as much as you do. or pull the schoolgirl act and tell him to be your teacher. he'll tell you what he wants.

1. make sure he is clean.
2. get him turned on. you'll have to figure out how to do this. guys get turned on in a thousand different ways. sex should be fun and adventurous. try something a little new each time to keep him interested. lots of websites on this. try kissing him on the inside of his thighs and his balls. or even just nuzzling his penis and licking it spontaneously. practice makes perfect! the more aroused he is before you actually put your mouth on him, the faster he will climax.
3. don't talk while you are going down on him unless he asks you to. many guys seem to say they like it when you hum or moan while he is in your mouth.
4. lick his penis from the base (right where the shaft meets the balls) to the head. keep that saliva going or have some yummy lube handy and use your hand along with your lips to keep a fluid motion.
5. don't stop unless he asks you to.
6. LOVE what you are doing. get into it. explore him with your tongue. it's ok to be shameless here.
7. if he doesn't grab your head and help out or seem interested, switch to something else. either he has a mental block about climaxing in your mouth, or he prefers another form of sex. many men prefer vaginal intercourse, anal sex or masturbation over oral sex.
8. if you are still concerned about getting to the bottom of this the best thing to do is tell him after that you want him to love what you are doing as much as you do. or pull the schoolgirl act and tell him to be your teacher. he'll tell you what he wants.

I completly understand where your coming from, I had no idea what to do, but I just ha to learn the hard way...
if a boy likes somthing he will normaly show it..by making noise or moving or touching you...so whatch out for these!

Also, when your both drunk one night...start asking about what he likes in a girl or somthing and move swiftly on to what do you like in a b.j... if you ask when your drunk, it makes it more relaxing and you dont realy care what you sound like.

here's some tips to try - see if he reacts to any and then you can go from there:
- Roll back the fore skin and suck his end for a little bit
-lick his balls (kind of how he licks you!)
-deep throut if you can (some boys like it when girls gag on the co*k)
-build it up!..start slower and play around and then get down to the nitty gritty...and dont stop after 30secs beacuse it will take longer
-use you hand at the same time as sucking (like in porno's)

GoodLuck

Ok for one: NEVER ASK A FEMALE HOW TO DO THAT!!! ASK THE GUY OR A GUY!!!

I learned that in class one day on a random subject

But my dude (ex, booty call whatever we are) He has only let me finish once. Another he finished and I swallowed. Even though I did it to him a lot. But yeah anyway I know dudes do like diferent things and I know he doesn't like teeth. Some do. A few years back when I had my braces a bracket caught it lol it didnt cut though so I know that.

Yeah so most boys I've asked like it when a chic uses one hand to rub the nuts and the other to give a handjob while givin a blowjob.
Some of them dont like the eye contact and he didnt so I never did it. (I secretly like looking sometimes haha) But yeah it was somethin about blowin on it but I didnt do that and *dont understand what it does(?) All that I know, they like the flicking of the tongue at the head, the moaning while its in the mouth too. I've have tried deep throat and for some reason my tongue backs up and blocks it. But its a BIG turn for me when the dude trys and force it buy pushin my head.

Main Point: Ask ya dude

I hate it when she bites towards the head but its cool towards the base watch your fingernail its like a papercut times 100000000 and the tounge is very versatile use it often plus the icecube idea was great

WHAT YOU CAN DO IS GIVE HIM STROKES AND HOLD IT GENTLY,UP AND DOWN AND TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HE TASTE GOOD AND YOU WANT HIM TO MAKE A MESS IN YOUR MOUTH,AND HE WILL EXPLODE.

every guy is different, but for the most part just be confident in what your doing.

what helped me when I was learnign I just watched a lot of porn. HAHA that might sound a little funny, but it relaly does help, I just took what I saw and toned it down.
Make sure you put your hand at the base of his shaft, and keep your hand in motion with the bobbing of your head.

If you start the bj off slowly you cna build up his anxiety and its an easier task becuase they are so excited. once you've got them as hard as you can get into a really good rythm. and when you become more confident you can use little tricks. I have a trick where in the middle of a really good rythm ill move my tongue around the head of his d*ck and then keep going. its unsuspected and they dont know what you did.

just remember, youve got their prized possessions in your mouth. your in controle and this is a powerful sexual act.

once your confident its so much fun but most of all ENJOY YOURSELF WHILE YOU DO IT!!

go up and down slowy then get faster lick the head some guys dont like it when you stick the whole thing in your mouth so I would stay to licking the head and sucking on it.

The other advice is good, but something else to remember is to lick the area beteen his balls and his anus, guys love this and it is extremely sensitive! Also, swallow, swallow, swallow...I'm probably a lot older than you but I have never not made a guy cum in my mouth! I take great pride in that, but I get off getting a guy off with my mouth! If you don't like doing it guys know and they most likely won't cum, if you truly like it then just really get into it as though you were being played with and how that makes you feel. Don't be afraid to make noises (moaning)cause then a guy knows you like it! Whatever you do don't make continuous repetitive motions with your mouth and hands...switching around is best. Suck, stroke, lick,do some of those things at the same time...all of your blow jobs should be different with every guy! oooh yeah, practice practice practice!

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I got the best answer to this!
if yu want to make him feel good ,
there are many ways to do so.

if he works or goes to school yu live with him than that`s great.
lets say that yu were gunna see him one day.
he spends the night or something.
where yur best lingerie surprise him (:
lay there on the bed waiting for him or blind fold him.
I think blindfolding is the best.
walk him to a chair or the bed.
have him sit there.
put on one of his favourite songs that yu can dance to.
do a little strip-tease a little lap dance for him..
restraining him from touching yu (;
trust me, this will work.
as yur dancing to the beat,
strip yur way down, but dont rush it!
put yur right knee against his in betweens grind yur body back forth against him.
sit on him facing him undo his pants in a teasing matter while making out with him (not letting him touch yu)
pull his pants down around his ankles.
get up , go to his left side start kissing his ears whispering babiie yu know yu want me, but can yu handle it swirl yur tongue around in his ears.
(before yu strip yurself nude, be sure that he has most of his clothes off first, or it wont be too fun.. remember , yu want him to have a climax)
with yur teeth, grab the bottom of his shirt glide upon him while yur right hand gliding up his chest under his shirt while yur taking it off using yur teeth. using yur left arm, wrap it around his neck when yu get closer up to him (he still has an erection)
tickle the back of his neck a bit with yur left hand's fingers.
yu will see that he is trying to pull himself closer to yu.
take his right arm let him cherish yur breasts, giving him a flirty look
like yur lips though!
whisper tell him that yur about to make him feel good.
BUT.. asking him what he wants oou baby, what do yu want? give him a wink.
now yur gunna do yur part.
slide down on him with yur hands on his pelvis area (the hipbones)
get on yur knees. (LOL)
come down to about his thighs spread his legs open.
stroke his cocck until he gives yu a little hint of what he wants.
put his cocck between yur chest glide up on it.
take the head of his cocck kiss it, making the sexiest smooch sound.
give him a little glance (guys dont really like when yu stare at them while yur giving him head)
than work back at it.
swirl yur tongue in a clockwise position on his head.
now work it back the other way.
flicker yur tongue back forth on his head.
(NOW, he really wants it)
to give him head,
start at the bottom.. the intersection where his balls his anal meets.
(as disgusting as it sounds, but trust me, this makes a guy feel good.. dont put yur tongue in his ... though, yur just going to lick that vein yu see)
start from near his *** up to his scrotums.
put these sacs in yur mouth, one at a time like yur making out with it.
swirl yur tongue around them flicker yur tongue back forth.
I yu can deep throat, thats great, if not than it doesnt matter.
if yu try deepthroating,
try yur hardest not to gag..
while yur giving him head,
make a fist stroke the bottom half wile the other half is in yur mouth,
working up down on it.
(this does take a lot of work but yu will make him feel good)
while yur sucking him off,
make some moaning sounds.
this vibrates on his sensitive spot encounters him to feel really good.
tighten up yur mouth a bit (he loves it tight warm)
take the head, nibble on it as if yu were sucking on a baby bottle.
repeat these steps all over again..
when he tells yu that he is about to cum, take yur mouth off it slowy, take the head close it togetehr with yur index finger yur thumb.. kissing the side of his cocck.
lick down where yu started again back up to the tip.. by this time, he shouldve came.
after he cums, yu can either swallow or spit it out. some guys like it when yu spit it onto yur fingers rub it all over yur chest (playing in it .. KINKY!) or some likes it when yu let them cum between yur lumps (:
after he cums, kiss either ears moan in it .. mmm babiie , how do yu feel?
he will tell yu after how wonderful he makes yu feel.
dont brag about it when he does tell yu..
if he doesnt cum, yur not doing a good enough job.
maybe there is something that he doesnt like that yur doing.
dont be too rough force him to cum.
if he cums, he cums.
yu guys should talk about it (:
what makes him feel good,
what makes yu feel good.
what yu like about him eating yu out.. etc.

I hope this helped yu a lot (:
♥ enjoy!

I never did it before but im going to.. and I hope this advice works!!! thanxxx well g2g duces!!

All of ya are very discusting putting dick in your mouth..ask your boyfriend how many girls have he been with because if ya doing all of that then he must be experinced and is not a virgin so all the time you sucked his dick you ate his ex girlfreinds pu*sy...because he fu*ks wiff his dick and you suck so you ate what he fu*k and your nasty

just keep sucking and dont stop! its NOT hot to stop to play with it, kiss it, or suck on the balls. just keep sucking like its a lollipop

#1 there shud be nooo teeth!!! Don't not under any circumstances make tethe to d*ck contact. That hurts!
#2 it good to suck da head but don't do crazy on it. Its very sensitive. Girls don't like it when guys lick their clit hard neither.
#3make eye contact while you doing it
#4 try to deepthroat every once in a while. It feels gud. And its gud to get use to it so you don't gag on it in da future
#5 jerk it while you suck it
#6 start slow and den go faster
7# cup da balls. DON'T SQUEZEE THEM!!!
8# try to get use to cum. Guys love it when your not grossed out by da cum

my boyfriend mostly always cums when I do it slow and lick the tip of his penis, then I take it all in, then come to the top and lick and kiss the tip, use your hands and give him eye contact, to keep him wantin you more stop before he cums then turn him on (you'll know how), then carry on, this normally works

mm if you ask me, you should start by rubbing his dick through his pants make him want to play. kiss his neck while you do it then slowly move down his chest lower and lower eventually he will get the chills through his body and know exactly what you both want un botton his pants while you kiss lower suck on his balls then kiss your way up his dick and when you get to the top swirl your tongue around it make sure he wants it bad and when hes ready go down and suck his dick :p
I though that sounded hott XD

ok so, my guy loves blow jobs. All I do, is suck hard and pay attention to the head the most. Yeah, I deep throat it every once in a while, but if you are trying to be quiet that is not such a good idea. While you are sucking on his head lick around in circles. I asked him once what made the blow job so great for him and he said the way I used my tongue. Also, when you are giving the blow job, pay attention to his balls. My man goes wild when I am sucking his head and teasing his balls. Take the balls into your mouth every once in a while. Just do what feels comfortable to you, cause if your not comfortable with what you are doing, then you won't be doing it good.

I hope this helped.

deepthroat his dick,lick it, and suck it make sure you ut your hAND ON HIS STOMACH AND TEASE HIM

men enjoy when you lick right at the top of the penis it is good to also keep them hard by doin this giving them a wank