How to give a lapdance?

I am 21 years old and have been married to my high school sweet heart for 2 years and would like to give him something special for valentines day to show I how much I care. I have given him dances before...and he thinks they are sexy, but I feel like I have no idea what the hell I am doing!!! Any advice would be awesome.

My husband is always telling me I need more confidence. I am always not feeling pretty allthough he tells me I am all the time. Here's the thing, we got together like 4 years ago and are now married and have 2 children. Before babies I was like 5ft 3in and weighed around 100 lbs and had like a B cup or so. I had VERY little figure, and was an all around skinny girl. Now that I am 21, my body has changed some. I got a lot curvier, but I DO NOT like my body. My boobs are HUGE like 34 DDD, and I weigh around 115 lbs. I went from like a size 0 to a size 5 or 7. I know most women after having babies don't even get that small, but I can't seem to lose the boobs...
I just feel so uncomfortable in my own body...

IF YOU GOT A LOT CURVIER WITH 36 DDD AND YOUR NOT FAT HOW COULD YOU NOT LIKE YOUR BODY SORRY BUT YOUR CRAZY I WOULD LOVE THAT...

work out and eat healthy. you got big breasts, he likes that. id love t have your body. he loves you no matter what you look like.