How to give a lap dance?

how do you give your guy a sexy, seductive, make him want you in his pants, lap dance?

A lap dance is usually seductive by itself... Haha... Make sure you're wearing a shirt that shows plentiful cleavage as your chest will be at the level of his face right in front of him. That will make him very happy. Then just tease him without giving too much - like slide from his knees up his things and when you get "there" pull away and dance above him. Tease then when you get too close, pull away and do something else. Unresolved anticipation can be frustrating for him but only because he's dying to have you right then and there, haha, so use that Or you can be direct and just rub, but that's not as creative.

Turn on some nice music, whatever you like that you will comfy dancing to. Now make sure you wear really cute underwear and a bra. As your dancing do some of what the above says. Go in, rub against him with your body on his body parts, then pull away. dance. repeat. strip off one item of clothing. tease, dance. tease. dance. strip. I think you get it.