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How to give a lap dance

Asked by slippy814 over 3 years ago, 58 answers.

I was wondering how to give a lap dance. how do you start and end it? is there any helpful websites to learn from? thanks.

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Answered by ask_me on Jun 28, 2006, 12:13PM
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10 Easy Steps How To Give A Lap Dance...
(1)You got to Loosen Up A Bit, Take Your Time, Feel Sexy, Feel The Urge To Dance
(2)Place Him\Her On A Chair
(3)Once You`ve Put Them In Their Place You Beggin To Arouse Him\Her By Dancing 4 feet Away
(4)Once You`ve Done That Then You Get Closer But Not To Fast You Want Them To Enjoy It And Not Just Jump To The Bed!
(5)Moving Your Hips Back And Forth Closer And Closer You Begin To Touch Your Body Like Its Really Turning You On (Dont Forget To Smile)
(6)Make Sure That He Knows He Cant Touch You Its A Hands Off Deal! Common Ladies Take Control
(7)Now Start Moving Your Butt Closer Too His Lap But Dont Sit Just Slowly Rub Your Butt On His Lap They Love It!
(8)Slowly Turn Around And Have Your Chest Out Same With The Butt Make Sure That He Knows Your Encharge Tease Him With I Little Bit Of Touching
(9)Kiss His Neck Lightly Then Moan Lightly In His/Her Ear Kinda Like a Sigh But The Kind That Turns People On!
(10)Once You See He Is Very Aroused And Cannot Take Anymore! You Let him Take Over!

*** Dont Forget To Pick A Good Hip Swinging Song To Go With It***

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Answered by naavastar on Nov 05, 2005, 06:27PM
43 answers

lol
I read it Daniel. WOw
thats hot

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Answered by naughty_angel060 on Nov 29, 2005, 06:19PM

first you just got to feel sexy. once your confident it cant be THAT bad.. lol and if your not horny or want the guy.. you will probly suck.. so make sure it with someone you like or want to sleep with
hahaha just feel hott and dirty and get your freak on

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Answered by lizzysddj on Dec 07, 2005, 12:46PM
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I agree feel sexy, I worked at a place once and the women who get the most money are not who you would think. Men like whats real and they like feeling like they are the only ones you are dancing for so it doesn't matter what your built like or what you wear just feel it inside and remember the eye contact is the best thing no matter what!

Answered by vedicua0 on Apr 26, 2006, 12:20AM

wow not even I knew that much ... I thought it was just dancing above him stripping and caressing yourself slowley...biting your lip time to time...HOTT!

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Answered by southernkindofgirl on Jun 12, 2006, 03:22PM

okay now that we know how to give a lap dance, what's the best kind of music to go along with it?

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Answered by luvme_cheerqueen on Jun 14, 2006, 01:46PM

i advise all of ya'll to buy carmen electras striptease vidoes!!! there all 4 of them that teach you HOW to give a lap dance or strip dance!!! prefectly appropriate and SUPER SEXY!!! i luv them!!!!

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Answered by bballgurl765 on Jun 16, 2006, 09:44PM

drip sweat by david banner sexy an dirty easy to suduce a boy with an move to

Answered by x-tigger-x on Jun 29, 2006, 11:18AM

hahah thts amazin....but cn a ask wts a good song to do it to???

Answered by jerrygirl666 on Jun 30, 2006, 08:19PM
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wow thanks so much for the info. now i am ready to go out and give my b/f an awesomne lap dance

Answered by r-man on Jul 12, 2006, 02:47PM

im a guy and I want to give my girl friend a lapdance how do you give a women a lap dance?

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Answered by mjohnson7886 on Jul 20, 2006, 03:22AM

what are some sexually erotic sayings i can whisper in his ear??

Answered by troublelinser on Aug 23, 2006, 10:13PM

use music thats upbeat... but soothing... something that you might find at a club and yet it has to fit the mood that you want... make sure the lyrics dont overpower the beat and make sure its something you feel comfortable dancing with. as long as it describes movments with the instramentals and undertone and the lyrics are an additional undertone and even paced, it will be fine.

Answered by sinfulone666 on Sep 02, 2006, 02:48PM

hehe cool stuff! um any tips on what the women might enjoy more when a man wants to give one to his girl and is a rythemless white boy that cant dance? i baught an outfit though hahaha

Answered by funadvice on Dec 14, 2006, 07:06PM
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(This is and obvious one but just in case) If you give a lap dance to your BF, your gonna have to give him sex or its no fun for him at all.

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Answered by jackies272002 on Dec 17, 2006, 09:46PM

hi,I'm an ex dancer so I can add self helpful advice on how to give a lapdance...
Some sexy beat song ideas:
~Drip sweat-david banner
~I touch myself-the divinyls
~get low-li john
~over and over again-nelly
~promiscuous girl-nelly
~angel-aerosmith
~diamonds and pearls-prince
~lets get it on-marvin gaye
~you can leave your hat on-joe cocker

(Anything with a steady ,sexy or slow beat will work)

Here are some more move ideas:
(this may be too graphic for some so if it is dont read any further,but I dont know how else to say it,than to just say it)
~you stand barefoot on the guys knees and slowly grind your privates in the guys face
~you turn away from the guy and spread your leggs and arch your back and pause to let him admire you...
~you slide your leggs slowly down your leggs while in the above position until your hands are as far down as you can get them and then you slowly slide them back up as you come up
~you turn away from him and lay/lean your body over him as you pinch your nips,and or rub your body
~you grind your hips over his lap with his leggs close and your open
~if youre flexible,you get close to him and lift your leg up in a ballerina type pose
~you turn away from him and lay belly down on his lap,trying not to touch his pelvic area with yours,but just above it,and grind,as if youre having sex,but you arent...
~you slowly grind down to the floor or you squat with your leggs spread down to the ground and then you simulate like youre having oral...
~you put one foot inbetween his leggs on the chair or on the arm of the chair,with that leg bent and the other foot on the ground and you grind
~as you walk torwards him in between moves you can walk forward while rolling your hips from front to back
EXTRA HELPFUL THINGS
~do try to feel sexy and turned on
~do use a lot of eye contact
~do dance to sexy music
~the more you wear,the more you can take off
~school girl,nurse,maid,and police woman costumes work well
~sexy lingerie works well too
~remember if you run out of moves to do,you can always repeat moves
~the slower you move,the more sexy it will look
~do not let him touch you...but you can touch him
HOPE THIS HELPS...

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Answered by james10524 on Jan 07, 2007, 04:32PM
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after reading that, i want a lap dance sad

Answered by tx_girl_86 on Mar 12, 2007, 10:09PM

totally planning a lapdance for my fiance, out of my comfort zone and we got into a Sex routine, and i wanted out of it. I LOVE this advice. TOTALLY I am dancing to Buttons by the pussycat dolls.
I am nervous but more excited to spice up our sex life.

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Answered by jinx13 on May 29, 2007, 09:14AM
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My boyfriend asked me for a lap dance the other night and I had no idea what to do, this has helped me a lot.

BUT it says that not letting him touch you is an important part could you just handcuff him to really ensure him not touching you?

Also could you maybe blind fold him at first rub on him a little take it off and then move away so that he had a taste, but he couldnt see and now he REALLY wants to touch you but can't?

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